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sick of being alone.......
by candyman8201 at 10/15/2009 10:02:38 PM


ok, for any who read this, know that this is my first blog. for real. never was into bloging, but i give it a go. i am also just speaking my mind with this...ya know, it is hard for a man to find a girl. one could go up to every girl he see's in one day but if he's lucky, he might get one who really is single, but even that dosent mean there's any chance of anything happening.Dont get me wrong, im not complaining, im just speaking my mind, but its the trueth.one could go over in his head a thousand times or more on how to get a girl but most of the time, what ever he comes up with wouldnt work, Why? heres my thoughts. simply said, everybody is different. what i mean is for Exsample,
a man could give a girl a single red rose, when they meet for a date. The girl may think its sweet, and if your in a relationship with the girl, the meaning of a single red rose is a sign of love. thats the kinda guy i am,but, a guy could give a girl a single red rose, and she think it is to much or she could simply not like roses, ether way, dudes out of luck and most likely has no chance at anything. From where im sitting, that dosent give the guys to good of a chance, thus, it really is a race or game to get a girl couse for every one girl, she could have any number of guys trying to holla at her, then its simply the best one wins. where dose that leave the ones who didnt get the girl? well, it leaves them still in the game and trying to compete for the next girl that might spark his intrest. Sometimes, it gets to where theres really no point in trying, but then you hear that the guy that the girl choosed, had dumpted the guy couse he cheated on her or they argued to much or what have you, and if the guy trys his luck with the girl at that point, nine times out of ten, they still say no couse they just came out of a relationship, so where dose that leave the dude then? well, it leaves him still in the game, even though he, ( he could be me, but she would have to find out), could be the best catch for any girl, thus the dude,( or me), is left being sick of being alone.....


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bbb1982



10/18/2009 2:52:36 PM

Everybody is tired of being alone..but it gets to that point of where your tired of waking up with someone and it doesnt mean anything..finding that right one takes time..I mean a lot of time..!! Its hard to find that one who enjoys everything you do,and likes everything you like..Now the rose thing is so romantic..I would take a single rose anyday..Not only is it thoughtful,sweet,compassionate,and sexy..you took the time to think and really use your brain and say let me do this for her..If those chicks dont like roses...And thats something you like then she is not the one for you..You are in to romance and she is not!!! keep searching love...Shes out there somewhere!!!