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CAN WOMeN AND MEN BE "FRIENDS"??
by mizzgreeneyez at 10/16/2009 5:52:26 PM


OK, QUESTION FOR THE MEN AND WOMAN... CAN WOMEN AND MEN ACTUALLY JUS BE "FRIENDS"??? I MEAN WITHOUT HAVING SEX OR ANYTHING SEXUAL?? CAN'T MEN RESIST HAVING A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN FRIEND WITHOUT THINKING ABOUT F**KING HER????


Comments

mizzgreeneyez
10/16/2009 6:06:40 PM

LOL.....I HAD MAD GUY FRIENDS, AND ALL THEY WANTED TO DO WAS F**K ME...LIKE CAN'T THEY JUS BE FRIENDS WITH ME WITHOUT THINKIN BOUT BONEING ME??? I JUS WANTED THEM AS FRIENDS CUZ I NEVER REALLY HAD GIRLS AS FRIENDS....LOL...

jayjayb86
10/16/2009 8:38:16 PM

so you used to or you still still do? you must be always havin a smile on your face huh. lok well i think it can happen but once the girl makes one sexy gesture or dresses to sexy once then its over imma have to whip it out. haha real talk though.
gousty



10/16/2009 9:44:33 PM

send me more interest piture please

jazzyphizz
10/17/2009 5:59:14 AM

I think they should be able to be friends i mean i cant tell u the amount of guy friends i had tht all wanted to have sex with me its just not right. They should be able to realize tht not evry girl wants to do tht and maybe they should stop thinking tht way as well

mizzgreeneyez
10/17/2009 6:05:24 AM

Lol I totally agree wit u jazzyphizz.. I had mad guy friends too and that's all they was thinkin bout.. They jus never wanna b jus friends, always something else..

jazzyphizz
10/17/2009 7:51:20 AM

You know it girl. Thts one of the reasons i was only with girls at 1st. However there are some guys out there tht can be friends and they wernt gay either so maybe somme guys can keep it in there pants lol

kuttysha
10/17/2009 10:04:22 AM

not really..not if am looking at u like i would fuk the shit out a u..then theres no way we can jus be friends....

jayjayb86
10/17/2009 10:30:17 AM

honestly the only actual female friends i had was ugly cause i can't have sexy female friends i just don't befriend with sexy girls unless i think we could be together. real talk though... so if Wn think your sexy n hn tryna be your friend them most likely i want to make something out of it. and its not always just about sex either. but again just real talk... and there imes half my friends... lol

jazzyphizz
10/17/2009 10:34:48 AM

You see tht Mizzgreeneyez. u know boys we would like male frnds tht dnt wana f**k. How hard is tht? cant ya'll control urselves and realize u can have sexy friends who r girls?

mack_loving69
10/17/2009 11:32:23 AM

well just to add to this i got girls that r my friends i got two best friend n they girls i dont think about f**king them but i think i learn alot on how to treat girl n be around girl u kno so idk wat ya saying...

daddycash
10/17/2009 11:41:00 AM

itz possible..hard but possible..Ive had female friends dat I would tear they a** up but self control is key but u cant act like yall dont b wantin it 2 sumtimes lol

mizzgreeneyez
10/17/2009 11:50:00 AM

Hahahaha u guys are funny...yea its about self control, but I know deep in ur heads u wanna screw around....its hard 4 u too b friends wit pretty woman...JUS FRIENDS....

jazzyphizz
10/17/2009 12:49:06 PM

exactly en we dnt want it cus we can see hot guys as friends and not just sexual partners. however atleast ya'll got selfcontrol. sumthng sum guys dnt have. Oh en Mizzgreeneyez im loving this blog girl =D

mizzgreeneyez
10/17/2009 12:58:09 PM

LOL....THANKS!!! I KNOW ITS GOOD...

jazzyphizz
10/17/2009 1:15:59 PM

lol im surprised how many guys are responding to this. I just wish there were more girls thn just the two of us =D

terr2
10/17/2009 1:39:25 PM

thats what i look for a friend thats a girl cause its easyer for me to talk to girlssigncool::::

mack_loving69
10/17/2009 3:27:19 PM

unah really if u get girl n u get p*ssy i think they shouldnt be nothing in ur head telling u to f**k ur friend

mrlansdowne
10/17/2009 3:41:40 PM

Well I have a lot of friend that are female and I haven't try to f**k none and I'm not gay loves the p*ssy it's just that's all it ever was between us. Now I can't say it never crossed my mind but that's it I have never once came at them on some shit like I was tryna f**k shit cuz I know where we stand

jayjayb86
10/17/2009 4:45:58 PM

yea self control is key baby girl.
thaflyestout



10/17/2009 11:37:15 PM

Tha way I look at it its cool I have a lot of female friends cuz I don't trust new niggaz I only trust tha nigggaz I grew up with and I can say 95% of my female friends look gud I had sex with most of them but not all but tha way I c it if they offer ima take it cuz at tha end of tha day its an atractive girl and ima guy but I'm not gana push 4 it cuz tha friendship comes first real talk

brailianpapi
10/18/2009 12:10:17 AM

letz say ur bois gurl is sexi az hell ur not goin think or do anything sexual with her u guyz are juz goin to be friends...

sion87
10/18/2009 2:56:23 AM

Honestly I don't think it's possible. Most of the time it's the guy with sexual feeling in a friendship, but if the guy isn't in to the girl sexually and they're friends the girl usually gets emotionally attached. So someone in the friendship is going to get attached or think sexual thoughts, at the end of the day we're all sexual emotional creatures. We are made to reproduce, therefore sex is always on our minds.

jazzyphizz
10/18/2009 10:27:15 AM

i have to disagree sion87. i thnk it is possible but like it has been repeated all thru ths post. its all about self control

sonasty
10/18/2009 12:18:37 PM

And u have none (LOL)

jazzyphizz
10/18/2009 3:40:28 PM

go away sonasty

russia69
10/20/2009 10:01:46 AM

honestly i only have guy friends and some of them ive slept with and dont anymore ad we are still cool i just do anything thats gonna make them think its gonna hppen againya digg lol

ncgetdownnow
10/20/2009 11:35:19 AM

yeah like 85% of my friends are beautiful woman and i can control myself believe it, but if this was 2 years ago then hell no

pandaishere
10/21/2009 6:15:39 AM

I feel that a man and a women can be friends even if they had some type of relationship in da past u just have tho guys that just wanna fucc then u have women dat also wanna fucc it goes both way we r all equal but it all on da person in high school I had many girl as friend but I never wanted to fucc them cuz I just look @ them as friends if u r mature u kno how 2 act but maybe that just me but I kno that how life is

msseductive
10/22/2009 6:50:08 PM

hell yeah a guy and a girl can just be friends u will only sleep with a friend if u looking at him or her in a sexual way not saying i never f**ked a friend and stayed friends but 9 chances outta 10 that shit will f**k up da friendship and if yall cool like dat then f**king eachother is not an option well for me it aint cant speak for everyone else

nccutie
10/25/2009 1:43:25 PM

i think men and women can be friends without havin sex. well i only can speak for myself. i can be friends wit a goodlookin dude wit no sex. self control. i have alot dude frinds and more than half want me sexaually.but i look at dem as my homeboys and not as a sexual object.

donque
10/25/2009 11:33:43 PM

No, most women and men can't be friends..... because they have mutual benefits..... men like sex, and women like material things.... only certain situations can make them friends... a man thinks:"why hang out with a gal who ain't givin' me none, when I can hang out with one who will"..... and a gal says: "why be around this guy if he ain't doin' nothin' for me... I'll go find someone who is"... there has to be some attraction to something, somewhere or the other person is just a tag-along....

dboystyle
10/26/2009 1:31:27 PM

yea of course. one of my best friends was a female...we had alot in common and errthang. we never had sex or anything. I believe so

nccutie
10/26/2009 1:36:23 PM

to donque. all women are not in material things like me. so it mus be da ones u know. some dudes like material things too. dats why they only need a chick for da p*ssy. so u sayin dat if a chick aint giving up her a** to at dude than ois a wrap she dont need to be around. trust and believe i got my own money so aint no man on here or anywhere dat can inpress me. money clothes and cars, i got dat. he cant impress me with what i already have. impress me what i dont have then ( a island) lol. like i said its da men and women u know. alot of da dudes saying what u sayin must not be gettin any puss why they feel dat way. lol. ya dig
sugardady007



10/27/2009 6:03:13 AM

Now !! Come on people, I know!! And you know the real answer to this question!! I don't play thoses game ,with women because I don't have the time. This is how hearts get broken, when you meet the your eye candy. You want to have sex, but you don't want to be seen as being easy!!. And men don't want to be ,seen as p...ssy hunters or moving on a kill!!. But when it comes, to my friend I can because I have seen what inside first. I have had some of my , women friends sleep with me with nothing on. No sex because I know that she is dealing with some kind of event( mind , heart problems). But don't think I am soft, I know when she really want to give herself to me. How!! A real woman will tell you . So to all my sisters and brothers keep it real at all times. Say what on your heart and soul.!! I have just pour, real sugar on the gamers

lickalot2009
10/30/2009 1:06:22 PM

am srry ppl but i think it not possible unless he is gay...that's the only way ...we r men and am srry to say men dont get enoff...u know....not personally speakin here, u know...lmao

lickalot2009
10/30/2009 1:19:13 PM

am srry ppl but i think it not possible unless he is gay...that's the only way ...we r men and am srry to say men dont get enoff...u know....not personally speakin here, u know...lmao

mrs_absolute
10/30/2009 5:32:56 PM

My closes friends are guys, my best friend is a man we've slept in da same bed and all n trust he is far frm gay never dared make any advances or ever mentioned sleeping with me he was always very respectful n Protective Then there's my other best friend who cnt seem not to mention how bad he would lk to screw my brains out, but I laugh it off remind him how it would never happen n continue being the best of friends He knows I dnt tk his words serious, but as a man feels he has to atleast try, but we are the greatest of friends n I trust my life in his hands n know n believe he wouldn't ever disrespect n cross then line of mere words So yes I think men n woman cn be friends, as a man will fantasize, but if a true friend will respect n not advance n make a move, so bck to lol self control n both my best friends are F*ckn HOT lol but eww jst the thought of it I love them lk brothers

show79
10/30/2009 10:18:52 PM

Yo on sum real ish who r these dudes that lay up with thier sexy friend homie who don't try nada, nuthing,at all u kidding me that's going all too far with it... i can understand once,, cause it was hell of night and nukkas was beant,,, but not even then ,, i stay hearing females tell me the same blah blah story ... yeah me and so and so sleep next too each other madd times and we never thought about doing nada ,, not once ever,,ill,,and u what i think the whole time i hear this ,, uhm she don't want me to they did it ,, or she don't know what the uck he thinking ....

creativeartist
10/31/2009 4:03:54 PM

well for me i like just being friends thats all good but iam not going to lie of coures sex goes though my mine but if she whants me she has to come after me ather wize i will controle myself and just be her friend she has to let me know its better that way

kuttysha
10/31/2009 8:53:55 PM

yes i think man and woman can be friends..but he still is gonna want to fuk her..he might not ack on it..but the thaught is always gonna be there.until its ful-filled...Kutty-G