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WIFE MATERIAL
by lashayc at 10/20/2009 10:10:56 AM


I WOULD REALLY LIKE TO KNOW WHAT MEN CONSIDER WIFE MATERIAL I SEE ALL THESE WOMEN WHO DON'T COOK OR CLEAN OR WORK AND THEY HAVE GOOD MEN WHO MARRY THEM AND I AM TOTALLY DIFFERENT I WORK COOK CLEAN RAISE MY KIDS KEEP MY RIDE CLEAN PAY MY BILLS AND WHEN I DO HAVE A MAN HE NEVER HAS TO PICK UP AFTER HIMSELF OR MAKE HIS OWN PLATE I ALWAYS DO EXTRA THINGS FOR HIM LIKE MASSAGES OR MANICURES AND PEDICURES I LET HIM BE THE MAN AND STAY IN MY PLACE I STAY LOOKING GOOD AND MOST OF THE TIME I AM IN HAPPY MOOD AND I AM GOD FEARING SO AFTER ALL OF THAT WHAT SEEMS TO BE THE PROBLEM WHAT MORE CAN I DO


Comments

urfantsy2lif
10/20/2009 11:17:07 AM

sounds like your not the one who needs to change sounds like you will make one lucky man very happy
cowboyfan88



10/20/2009 4:35:22 PM

Not that all are that way, but I would guess that most men do not know how to handle that. I would have to say that to some degree that threatens most mens independence.

bigs3375
10/20/2009 6:21:48 PM

sounds like to me you do to much,you shouldn't have to do all that for any man,your not his slave,just be honest and faithful to him and everything else will work it's self out.

bichon07
10/21/2009 6:04:58 AM

hey girl its your Bham friend, me and you are so much alike. I agree with some of the guys I dont think men know how to handle women like us. But on the other hand I think we both had to do for ourselves and not depend or rely on any man. Were not gonna sit around and wait for something to happen, were just gonna take the bull by the horns and do it ourselves that way we know it gets done. Maybe one day this will change and there will be a good man who can compliment women like us and handle our strength and independance.

greeneyz80
10/21/2009 9:54:03 AM

I think sometimes we sit and think about what we are not doing when in all actuality we are doing too much. Like Bichon stated we are used to taking care of ourselves and not needing any one to rely on. Cut yourself some slack girl you are an amazing female and someone will learn to appreciate that sooner or later.

stringman03
10/22/2009 4:45:21 AM

To be perfectly honest, Men like a woman generally speaking who is: Low maintenance Drama- free Likes sports Is a good cook DOESN'T NAG Easy going Acts like a wh*re in bed The problem with all married guys I talk to is that their marriage is in a rut. Their wives dish out sex for favors, get mad if they hang out with their male friends,etc. They get possessive after marriage. I will admit that it is not the wive's fault totally. Men in general have short attention spans, aren't good listeners, like their space and don't know how to romance their women to keep things alive. I do believe that most women would probably keep the sex hot and interesting with the proper romance and encouragement. To conclude, I like independent women that also know how to let the man be in control in certain situations. I like a woman who is intelligent as well as good looking. Men and women both like challenges. Men tend to get bored with a woman quicker than the woman getting bored with them. We are by nature hunters who like to bag our trophy but then move on to another target. If you are able to bridle that urge with your charm, personality, sex appeal, etc. then I applaud you! I do believe that if the right man and woman get together that it is a beautiful and fulfilling thing! Good luck to all of you! ANd you dogs, leave these two alone!

dblack55
10/22/2009 12:59:32 PM

wife material is my future wife lashay so all you other women get it 2gether

twrn1979
11/9/2009 7:32:21 AM

A connection and chemistry is the foundation of a relationship. Not any one or many things can define the essence of what makes a person feel the desire to exchange vows and believe that a lifetime is what they will spend with one another. As a person you follow your heart and make adjustments and sacrifices in order to have an understanding. Never feel as though you have to exceed your tolerance level to please because if an attraction was established then there is nothing that can deter that. You mention alot of the things that you are willing to do yet some may mistake that for a doormat, so know when to be more than just a caterer because though I love to be catered to, I feel it is sexy when a woman has a spine.

jackson007
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11/23/2009 8:58:02 AM

YOUR JUST TO PERFECT GIVE ME A CHANCE