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WHY ARE PEOPLE SO SHALLOW?
by stkin01 at 10/22/2009 6:11:52 AM


Clay Balls
A man was exploring caves by the Seashore.
In one of the caves he found a canvas bag with a bunch of hardened clay
balls. It was like someone had rolled clay balls and left them out in
the sun to bake. They didn't look like much, but they intrigued the
man, so he took the bag out of the cave with him. As he strolled along
the beach, he would throw the clay balls one at a time out into the ocean
as far as he could.

He thought little about it, until he dropped
one of the clay balls and it cracked open on a rock . Inside was a
beautiful, precious stone!

Excited, the man started breaking open the
remaining clay balls. Each contained a similar treasure. He found
thousands of dollars worth of jewels in the 20 or so clay balls he had
left.

Then it struck him. He had been on the beach
a long time. He had thrown maybe 50 or 60 of the clay balls with their
hidden treasure into the ocean waves. Instead of thousands of dollars in
treasure, he could have taken home tens of thousands, but he had just
thrown it away!

It's like that with people. We look at
someone, maybe even ourselves, and we see the external clay vessel. It
doesn't look like much from the outside. It isn't always beautiful or
sparkling, so we discount it.

We see that person as less important than
someone more beautiful or stylish or well known or wealthy. But we have
not taken the time to find the treasure hidden inside that person.

There is a treasure in each and every one of
us. If we take the time to get to know that person, and if we ask God to
show us that person the way He sees them, then the clay begins to peel
away and the brilliant gem begins to shine forth.

May we not come to the end of our lives and
find out that we have thrown away a fortune in friendships because the
gems were hidden in bits of clay. May we see the people in our world as
God sees them.


Comments

consentual
10/22/2009 7:21:41 AM

I love this story/illustration. It is so rich and impregnated with truth. However, it doesn't apply to men; it applies to people, like the story so rightfully indicate!

stkin01
10/22/2009 8:57:26 AM

I agree with you, so I went back and changed the Title to Why Are People So Shallow. Thank you,

consentual
10/22/2009 9:53:48 AM

Thanks, you are very open and kind; you have my admiration!

lake220
10/22/2009 3:23:43 PM

To Stkin and Consentual....both comments are very well said. We are a society that is to quick to judge people by their looks, body type or status. The most important is what is in a person's heart and what really makes them the individual they are. You have to look at the whole person.

kenokc
10/22/2009 8:11:39 PM

I was told I "looked" shallow. I stopped coming to this site for a long time after that. Took me a while to get over being told that, thought I was a nice, polite guy......

consentual
10/23/2009 7:03:16 AM

I have heard good people say, "I don't care what others say." I Do care, and apparently you do, Kenokc! What others say do affect us. In Vedic Lore, it is said that, "character is doing what you know is the Right thing, when no one is looking." Socrates from the Greek tradition said, "Know thyself, and to thine own self be true." Let what others say help you grow positively; and with humility, take that gentle detour from things that are damaging to your personal growth and maturity. Welcome back Ken!

lake220
10/23/2009 9:43:49 PM

A friend once told me...We come to love, not by finding the perfect person, but by learning to view the imperfect perfectly. Not sure where it is from, but makes sense.

consentual
11/6/2009 9:29:16 AM

where's all the positive feed on this wonderful story?

bluerose1950
11/6/2009 9:35:57 PM

We live in a disposable time. We have had all the illusions of what a perfect body should be or the perfect look. That is what sells. What isn't sell able is what is inside, the soul, heart, spirit. How they stand by their word, how they treat others, the old forgotten values, that made us special, within ourselves. We are a very judgemental world. We judge one by what they have, not by their merit, or what they could do for us.

bluerose1950
11/6/2009 10:01:16 PM

Ken, they where so far off the the truth with you. Let me know who they are, I'll let Baby Girl lose on them....