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Please tell me why?
by bossrocker55 at 10/25/2009 8:49:18 AM


Why is it every man's fault for what one man did?

Why should I have to prove my heart & soul without even being given a chance to just be myself?

How can love grow under those conditions?

When did love become a trial of proof beyond a shadow of a doubt?

I was not placed here to save all men that break a woman's heart!

I cannot erase what someone else has done in the past!

Why am I wrong because he was wrong?

Please tell me how trust and love can ever start to grow under such scrutiny?

If I stand in a room of cheaters, and heartbreakers, am I also one?

When will the world look inside me to see what I am without prejudging me for what someone has already done?

Am i the scapegoat?

Please tell me why I am to blame for what someone else did?

Am I the reason your heart is broke?

Then why do I have to PROVE myself before I can even be treated with respect?

Is that the way it works?

Is that what love has become to you?

I am a man, so therefore I am responsible for his wrongs, even if I did not know him?

Is there ONE woman in this cruel world that really wants to be loved unconditionally?

Show her to me please!

I refuse to be held accountable for someone else's actions!

Love is trust and hope and all the wonderful things we cherish inside our hearts!

Love is not having to PROVE that I am not the same as someone else before I can even take a breathe in a new friendship or relationship!

I want so much to be loved for who "I" am!

For all the wonderful things I can be to the right person.

But how can I show those things if the very first thing I must do is to defend myself against someone else's actions?

It is not my fault for what other men do!

Is it?

Please tell me why I always must PROVE myself?

When all I want is to love and be loved!

I am not angry at you!

Just want to know why I am guilty of another man's wrongs?

Why must I have to PROVE?

Love cannot grow under those conditions!

Suppression and lack of an open environment will suffocate any living thing before it can grow!

Especially love!

Very sad to have my intentions questioned for what someone else did!

Innocent bystander always get the blame LOL!

Story of my life!