A few thoughts for u...

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A few thoughts for u...
by hitweety at 10/25/2009 2:16:52 PM

Sometimes people change so you can learn how to let things go. In return somethings go wrong so so can appreciate them when there right...sometimes you believe lies so you don't have to deal with the truth. In return you learn to trust no one but yourself... good things fall apart so better things can come together.. Love the people that love you and learn something from the one that bring you hurt and grief....If you see a chance take it, If it changes your life let it. In return it may not be easy but it may be worth it.. People are all diffrent in there own way but we are all just that people- we all share the same feelings. We ALL have regrets, learn from them and let them go but don't forget them... what you been through has only made you stronger. Being honest with others will teach you alot about yourself and who you are. live and love, cherish the small good moments,! Truth is the best medication to confusion!.. These are some messages that I found inspirational or at least make you want to thing a little diffrently, some are mine and some are others.. And a friend added to have patience with life and love.. (I accidentaly erased the comment and message- sorry! u know who u are!) I believe there is something to learn from everyone, I think when you read the message you too will find it to be true! feel free to add yours!

Comments
jimmyjo11	10/26/2009 5:50:40 PM The truth is in life everyone in life is going to hurt you or cause you pain,we just have to figure out the ones worth it,not being negative,just accepting life ,love is not always happy moments,but if its love we take the time,to work it out and figure a way to resolve the problem..
michaeldec23197	10/29/2009 2:16:01 PM i agree one hundred percent with your blog tweety.we all have learned from our mistakes and regerts. i just want to say .i finally figured out who i am as a person. i changed the way i think to an extent.people dont really know how to love or forgive they hold grudges for nothing.the world is not crazy its the people in it that are.i love life and would not do anything to jeopardise friendship or my life .you only live once.
hitweety	10/29/2009 3:04:42 PM Thank u guys for expertise! I have feel that jimmy u are so right when u said love is not always happy moments ect... I guess the key there is to figure out when it is time to hold on and when it is time to let go. For me, I was in a long marriage. I was raised with both parents and marriage was forever- well with that thought I got my a** ran the hell over, and over again, I thought I could love him unconditionaly and with age,love and patience, he would come around- and we could be ok. Boy was I wrong! I had so many years invested in him and I did love him. well with age came more problems, him with his and mine with the desire to have a respectful loveing husband, which I never got! So I made the longfull decision to call it quits. I finally figure that we were totally two diffrent people with diffrent wants out of life and there was no way to change that. I am much happier now. but the idea of dating scares the hell out of me! And I do try not to hold on to the Grudges from the past. But sometime I have to remind my self daily to let them go. I sure don't want them to become any part of my life today- but it is hard!
humbleman30	10/29/2009 4:21:40 PM Your right, i believe that u do learn and get stronger from people that have loved and hurt you. At the same time, it makes u dought and wonder, and makes u numb sometimes to people. Maybe its the heart breaks and the feeling u get when ur heart is broken, it takes a while to get over that hurt. And its not easy to forget. However, i believe you do get stronger and learn from the good or the bad things that have changed your life and personality. But u never forget. But if you can't learn to let go or avoid the bad in ur life, you'd never get anywhere else in life. We all just do the best we can do, and strive for better things in life and thats all we can do.
hitweety	10/29/2009 4:35:20 PM Amen! to that!" To strive for better things in life".... U know what ever happend to saying " I am sorry when ur wrong?" I think that goes a long way for healing! a least I would love to hear that from my ex-hubbie but Owell thats why he is an EX!