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tiffy23	10/26/2009 8:12:32 AM You completely got it wrong! Im not taljing about sleeping with anyone,I have respect for myself and my son. He comes first and formost!!!! I talking about when somome your talking to is calling you pet names and saying a bunch of sweet things making you believe that is how he truly feels. So,then you begin to open up your heart a bit,causing your emotions to be involved with that person. Then you find out they are saying the same type of things to another girl,making you relize they didn't mean anyting they said to you causing your feelings to get hurt.That is all I was saying. Nothing about hooking up with anyone.
hunterkevinjs	10/27/2009 6:06:24 AM U need 2 find some1 thats in this 4 the right reasons & not just 2 hook up & have sex & give them a chance. ur fallin 4 2 many players & not given the few good guys a chance. im sure theres a good guy out there 2 show u & ur little guy the love u2 deserve
gwh804	10/28/2009 12:47:52 PM As sickening as it may be, it's a good thing you found out now before things got more serious. Not all guys are like that, some think dating is a sport not an opportunity to share your life with someone. Sad but true.
crazy_skull	10/29/2009 9:32:18 AM no one should say any thing that they truely dont feel when they are in any kind of relationship wether its just a friendship or any other kind of relationship. deseat just isnt good it is harder to regain trust then it is to get it in the first place and is it worth it to ever loose it once you get it? I dont think so.....
crazy_skull	10/29/2009 9:41:18 AM guys r not the only ones who play games. girls r tought to play games when they r still small. I came up with mostly girls in the house so i am awair of a lot of them.... I think it is wrong to say "guys" that way. I'm shure that you didnt feel to good when i said "girls" the way i did. to place all guys and all girls in any catigory is not the way to be and I dont think you will find any one good if you dont look at each person as there self insted of grouping hem all together like that.
imdash	10/30/2009 11:05:27 AM Honestly how would feel if the guy just came at you with his true emotions and his true internal turmoils and said, "Hey Tiff I really am attracted to you and the way I have been treating you is real, but I also attracted to someone else and also treat her just as sepcial as she is to me". Would you have a problem with that? He's being honest and he's being straight forward by telling you how he really feels as torn as it may be. Could you respect a amn that would come out and just tell you? ALL WOMEN say that they would rather know the truth and wants a man with HONESTY but can't accept the truth for what it really is. I don't advocate being jsut an all out liar/player/person who plays mind games ... but I have been in a position before where I have actually cared about two women equally and when I was honest enough to put it out there I bit me in the ass! So I've been in your shoes and I know it hurts but I've been in the other shoes and been honest and it hurts just as bad!
romeodelight	11/11/2009 8:12:50 AM Unfortunately there are all too many people who are not honest with themselves or others and this means both men and women. At least you are learning to be wary of the smooth talking-player type. The thing is to not be too cynical of everything that comes your way because not everybody is that "type". I've been in the same kind of situation as you the only difference is you were lucky or smart enough to figure it out before it got too far. Also, considering the fact that you have a kid means that you need to be extra cautious. The last thing you want is to become involved with someone who your child gets attached to and then have that child hurt by the same bullshit.
buzzy1290	11/15/2009 7:01:01 PM i understand u completely and feel for you i understand what u are saying yeah it sucks but it is part of life everything happens for a reason yeah its good that you find out and are moving on