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A word about me....
by darthmaulanie at 10/27/2009 12:27:03 PM


So, my status says I am seperated. I have been seperated from my husband for nearly 6 months now. I am starting the actual "divorce" process this week. I was taking the process slow to make sure it was the right decision. I was the one who decided to leave. Let's just say it was irreconcilable differences, the ol' standby of the stars.
My marriage is ending in good terms; as good as they can be. I am not opposed to re-marrying but it will be awhile before I do that again; if I do at all. Right now, I'm just focused on meeting new people, having some nice chats/conversations and seeing what develops.
I do not hate men because of my divorce. I think many people are jaded after a marriage ends but although I am sad, it was a good experience to learn from.
I am an outgoing person although I do tend to use personality and humor to not "open up" with deeper feelings at times. I am not opposed to sharing. I just need direct, specific questions to get me started.
I am a loyal friend. I am willing to listen to anything that's on your mind.
I give out hugs to strangers, pets, hedges so beware of that if we should meet face to face. I am very affectionate although not so much in public, I feel affection is a private matter.
Humor and laughter are very important to me. If we don't have the same sense of humor than we can just be friends.
Having several things in common with a person is another criteria that must happen. I guess you could call it chemistry....let's just see where that leads.
Anyway, I just wanted to clear the air about this seperation business. It can be misleading.
Ciao!


Comments

darthmaulanie
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11/17/2009 11:52:19 AM

I am supposed to state that my meaning of "public display of affection" simply means I am not interested in being slobbered on during the longest makeout session on record in the middle of commuting on Trimet...although I was kissed at midnight on New Years Eve while riding the Max...THAT was perfectly within the scope of an act of spontaneity or within holiday custom... PLease forgive me for being so unclear