WHY CAN' GUYS ACT REAL

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krunchtime72	11/10/2009 1:56:11 PM I know from experience that it takes TWO to cheat. Everybody has free will and a person can only do what he or she allows themself to do. There are no rules in love anymore then there are rules in lust. Everybody takes a chance in love,and everybody get's hurt at least once. When that happens,you learn from that disappointment,put it behind you, and try again with a more wiser insight.
mizzphilly	11/11/2009 7:06:53 AM It start with these loose women...I'm tired of being equated with them....their fake and their messing it up for the sisters who really deserve a chance at a brother who is ready to pour himself into us....I'm not hating...no need to...just keeping it real...and if a sista is taking offense to what I'm saying...than maybe it's you I'm speaking of...I'm just saying...these men are only gonnna do exactly what you aloud them to do....FEEL ME?!.....It starts with us women....Be real and our men will be real with us...and if that can't get with your program it's ok....to hell with him!....there's more who will....don't belittle yourself for some mans low standards...you are beautiful and deserve the best....smooochies...
bigjaysmooth	11/11/2009 8:38:25 PM Sup sis, you ask why men cant be real. I ask what is real. You mentioned loose women. We'll they are real to what they do, the men that like them is too. I stated this stuff to say that you have to put yourself around people that be real to what you do. I read your post and I understood were you coming from through out of fustration but my advice is to put yourself in the places, where people think similiar to you. In addtition, I disagree that everything in a relationship and sex starts with the female. In my opinion, it starts with the person that is the most dominate. Lastly, a person having good morals is within them. They either have them or not. I never been a cheater and that is because I choose to. I had many opportunities and I just dont see the reasoning of that ideology. Trust me and I been through some shit. If a person wants to be real, they will. Peace, Jay
mizzphilly	11/12/2009 5:09:46 AM Hey Jay....I was commenting from Mr. Krunchtime here...that was his question...However,women are the relationship...we make it do what it do baby...we are the creaters of family...(like big momma)...((lol))...I don't need any company in know ing that....My mother raised me all by herself...no father figure...and I think she's done a great job in doing so....so I love and understand me....she has taught me right from wrong and morals are present in everyday life...I'm a GOD fearing women...I just wish that my Black sisters would live for something...not just anything....Women are the dominate ones in a relationship....It's sota like that whole no means no situations...((lol))...see...It's been so on going...women not following thru...that the truth is distaughted...it's sad...but I see your point...and all tho we agree to disagree...I respect what your saying....
bigjaysmooth	11/12/2009 10:31:16 AM That is great that your mother done a great job. Mine did too. Although, how can you say woman is the relationship? Futhermore, how can you say that you a God fearing woman and believe that ideology. There is no part of God Word (BIBLE) that talks about woman being the head, the dominant one, or any part of being in control of His world. Raising children, doing stuff around the house,ect doesnt make her the be all in a relationship. Neither does giving the guy a piece of sex. A man can get that 24/7 all day if he wanted, at least I could. See siste I agree to disagree, I approach what I say in life as a scholar. What I say is facts, where in the Word is that woman is the be all in a relationship, since you say you a God fearing woman. Im not making this a religous post either but I am interested about this new mindset in our society.