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To Anyone Wanting To Know Who I Truely Am
by stackdjr at 10/31/2009 11:59:39 PM


Ok I wrote this a long time ago and sent it to cosmopolitan magazine it was published in january of 04 and still holds true to who I am and how I bieleve a woman should be treated.


GIRLS THIS IS TO YOU READ CAREFULLY AND PAY ATTENTION!


We don't care if you talk to other guys.
We don't care if you're friends with other guys.
But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.
It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.
We don't care if a guy calls OR TEXTS you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned.
Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait till the morning.
Also, when we tell you you're pretty, beautiful, gorgeous, cute, stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong.
We'll stop trying to convince you.
The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me.
Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood im in.
let us pay for you!
dont "feel bad"
We enjoy doing it.
It's expected.
Smile and
say "thank you."
Kiss us when no one's watching.
If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed.
You don't have to get dressed up for us.
If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.
We like you for who you are and not what you are.
honestly, I think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up
Don't take everything we say seriously.
Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.
Don't get angry easily.
Stop using magazines/media as your bible.
Don't talk about how hott Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us.
It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that.
Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful"
I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby, stud, cutie, sexy" or whatever else you can think of.
on the other hand im not sayin I woulndnt like it ether.
Also "getting some" is not the only thing EVERY guy cares about. Girls, proof of this is if a guy will wait for you to be "ready" to "take your relationship to the next level"
Not all guys are the same. And we're not all perfect either. We're only human.
Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, dont wait for him to change. It's not gonna happen, ditch his sorry a** he's disgrace to the male population and find someone who will treat you with utter respect.
Someone who will honor your morals,
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.
Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.
Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.
Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes....and say "I love you" ..and actually mean it.
I guess what im trying to say is give the nice guys a chance.


Comments

mrscrazyb
11/1/2009 4:23:23 PM

love this
nmsweetheart85



11/2/2009 9:39:01 AM

Too bad more guys don't think like this! But I love it too!