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a question for the ladies
by mrbambam914 at 11/1/2009 5:26:31 AM


why dont ladies in my age range 19-24 like nice hard working guys untill they had a baby by a loser that dumps then when there pregnant it seems like girls these days only care about the clothes a guy is wearing and how gangsta he acts but once they have a kid thats when they start giving us nice guys a chance


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bluefibi
11/1/2009 5:56:28 AM

Cuz some girls are very picky and they usually use the gangsta the men cuz they're popular with their game and the clothes, is cuz is namebrand and that's how some girls like it but that won't take you no where. You can always know that nice guys finish last and remember not all girls can be like that

diamondgirl18
11/1/2009 6:21:33 AM

Well me personally I like the guys who dress nice and fresh and all that but I don't pacifically go for them but a dude can't be dressed like a bum n expectme to holla cause that's ano no...u gotta atleast look proper nah mean

the_1_lo0kin_4
11/1/2009 7:02:53 AM

my ni99a everytime i ask a girl y u wanna fuk wit me da first thing dey say iz cuz i dress go0d then im hansome...90% of girlz wanna man dat lo0k go0d & take care of himself if u lo0k like u dont then most of da time dey dont fuk wit u... gurlz are materialistic these dayz datz all my nigga

mrbambam914
11/1/2009 7:14:17 AM

Don't get me wrong I take care of my self but I won't spend my last doller on pradas then don't have money to pay my rent I would rather have my own place that be the flyest nigga

the_1_lo0kin_4
11/1/2009 7:36:09 AM

yea my ni99a datz y im sayin, u only can do it if u got it...i pay my rent & bills on time n still have money to shop 4 wat i want & i have money saved up...if u pay bills & u aint gonna have bread at da end to blow dont do it cuz shorteez aint worth spending ur last on...

pleasure_boy
11/1/2009 7:45:24 AM

yeah son you only can do it if you got it. dont spend your last on a shorty. my nigga above is right

dredaybx
11/1/2009 7:49:55 AM

Its the way of life my nigga Thats just how things are

yorksymone
11/1/2009 9:15:10 AM

As far as im concerned appearance only goes but so far, but don't take advantage and think u don't have to take care of yourself. Physical is the first thing that catches the eye and then its personality, goals and life situation. Anyway that's way off topic. Females with kids like hard working men because they want to be taken care of, substitute their absent baby fathers for a now suitable man. And women whom are independent can't appreciate a good dude because they're so damn independent that a man isn't needed. Kinda crazy but that's how life works love....York

yorksymone
11/1/2009 9:20:03 AM

O nd nice guys r the equivalent of the door mat I wipe my shoes on. Im too strong minded to have one who is going to give in to all of my demands. I need someone to tell me no sometimes. Nice Is played out when u have so many outspoken women now nd days...York

dredaybx
11/1/2009 10:05:09 AM

So true York ..... On both comments

mrbambam914
11/1/2009 10:14:51 AM

Yea your right york

diamondgirl18
11/1/2009 10:46:35 AM

Shut upp! Lmao some of ya sayiin ya wudnt spent ya last money on some pradass or fcukin name brandshit n im pretty sure ya do deadass.... lol

dredaybx
11/1/2009 11:14:43 AM

Shit I cant even afford that shit LOL smh

the_1_lo0kin_4
11/1/2009 11:26:20 AM

i buy pradaz n shit but it aint my last...itz called gettin a go0d job & being smart with ur money.

dredaybx
11/1/2009 12:55:14 PM

word up

legend_q
11/1/2009 1:47:38 PM

times is changing and the gentleman is really a last of a dying breed and people really need to remember man makes the clothes the clothes don't make the man.

panamanianchika
11/1/2009 1:49:07 PM

Lol u guys r funny

mrbambam914
11/1/2009 2:00:17 PM

^^why r we funny chika

yorksymone
11/1/2009 2:02:20 PM

I Beg To Differ a Well Kempt Man Has a Well Kempt Lifestyle. Not Meaning He Must Go Above Nd Beyond Gucci & Prada Is a Lil Excess, But a Good Looking Man Will Attract a Good Looking Woman With Similar Goals And Interests...York

panamanianchika
11/1/2009 2:05:45 PM

Bcuz of wat dredaybx said

dredaybx
11/1/2009 4:12:02 PM

LOL u laughin at me??? I cant afford that shit I
briidon



11/1/2009 9:23:05 PM

personally, girls are all caught up in the "omg hes so adorable" phase and fail to see what that guy really wants. Once the kid comes, watch out, that dudes outta there. Doesnt seem that we all think with our heads, we tend to think with our hearts, but that gets us hurt

jennyann71
11/3/2009 7:32:08 AM

You have a lot going so do not settle for someone eles baggage and My prayer for you that is"""" you find a nice gal on the same page with you ,

catsmam76
11/3/2009 7:43:18 AM

I won't be surprising anyone here by agreeing with Miss Jenny.I've been the "nice guy" all my life and it's been a great trip that just keeps getting better.Be truew to who you want to be and soner or later a great girl will find you.

guttahchick
11/4/2009 8:52:21 AM

I feel like this: Females wanna sexy azz gangsta to make them look good in public even if they are jerks but wen they fuk up and get pregnant tha jerk is ready to leave and of course tha female is gon run to a "nice" guy to support her...im not like that at all if a nigga can hold himself down and is workin hard and doin good imma jump on it, dont get me wrong he do gotta have a cute face and cant be dressin like a bum but he aint gotta spend $300 on a pair of jeans. im independent and im not tha materalistic type of female im more for love i can buy myself fancy shyt ya feel me

destini91
11/4/2009 9:26:43 AM

cuz..dat just how we are..get used to it..lol

bibkbaybe
11/24/2009 4:45:19 AM

Im def feelin what York had 2 say. Az 4 me, I don't give a fuk bout name brandz, u can still get crispy, itz about it fittin ri, bein clean n color coordinated. Homie can hav on a 15 dollar sweater from VIM, idk. neva been da materialistic type. Shyt I can buy a 20 dollar outfit n look betta den most these bytches rockin gucci o whateva. Its all bout workin wit what u got. Az 4 femalez realizing way 2 late dat da hardworkin man iz a good choice, it iz what it iz. In da beginin they was young n naive 2 lay down raw wit a dude dat made em feel good @ da moment. Down da line they realize he a jerk, but now they hav a child dat changes da way they look @ everything. Its a natural progression 2 make smarter choices 4 ya kidz. But femalez in dis situation need 2 step up n take care of themselves 2 bring something 2 da table. Like York said tho its a delicate boundry cuz a woman can get too independent 2 da point she don't leave any room 4 a man 2 step up. The key iz finding da balance n being codependent instead of independent or dependent. These females nowadays need 2 get a betta head on they shoulderz.