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| can a fuller figured chic find love?
by pumkinspice2000 at 1/29/2008 8:51:59 PM
Why do most men want to date someone who looks like Jessica Simpson?? Yes, she is beautifule and works hard to stay that way. I am not hating her, I am just saying that I can be just as wonderful, too, in my own ways...even as a fuller figured gal. They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder...then why does society put so much emphasis on slenderness and so on? Also, if there are men out there who likes a gal with meat on her bones, where are they hidding?....care to comment??
In my opinion.......
Well,I can say that dating is hard; no matter what you look like. I am sure everyone can agree that at some point in their life they have felt this: You like someone who doesn't like you back--maybe you're too small, too big, nose too long...whatever...but we all have been there.
We like what we like, no matter what that may be & its hard to find what we like & even harder to find something that we like to like us back in the same way & that is the same for anyone, any size, color & so on.
I am honest & upfront when guys try to chat with me. I tell them I am fuller figured…normally I don’t hear back from them…but I won’t deceive people. I am sure deep down they are happy that at least I was upfront. There are a lot of guys/gals who aren’t & you think you are meeting a person that is appealing due to the way they described themselves & then when you meet it’s like seeing a cave man or something…yuck! I am sure we have all been there…and it makes it harder for the honest person to find decent people because of deceivers (or people in denial about their appearance).
Bottom line is beauty is in the eye of the beholder…its just hard finding the beholder.
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