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need to vent
by cntrybnkn at 2/5/2008 8:34:24 PM

I have so many things to vent about i don't know where to start. Since this is a dating site I'll start with that. Know why there are so many single parents? Because they dont have time to date or look for a possible date. Thats the case for me anyway. My kids r only away from me when they r at daycare and i'm at work. once in a while they go to stay the night with my parents but then i'm so drained that all i do is go to sleep. Last time i had a babysitter i was in bed by 9 pm. Thats sad aint it. Men don't understand the single parent schedule. Even those that have kids and actually are involved with them don't get it cause very few of them are raising the children. And when u meet a man and tell them u have kids usually they can't get away fast enough because they think that ur just looking for a daddy, somebody to take care of u and your kids. Not true. I work a full time job and take care of my kids and my bills. I don't want somebody to take care of me or my kids. But i do want help. Yes i won't lie i am looking for a "daddy" for my kids but not for financial reasons but for the benifit of my kids. Their father got with another woman after our divorce that has kids and then quit paying child support. The bastard actually had the nerve to tell me he just couldn't afford to take care of 2 families so his kids are just shit out of luck. Men. So know they get nothing from him. He don't even call to talk to them. My dad is trying to fill in best he can but he is grandpa not dad. I just want my kids to have a positive male role model in their life to show them that all men are not sorry good for nothing asses. I just wanna meet a good man that understands my single working mom schedule and is ok with playing daddy. Is there anybody like that out there? Well thats about all for today but there is surely more to come.