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| HARD LESSONS THAT LIFE HAS TAUGHT ME PT 2
by logik0505 at 3/5/2008 8:26:29 AM
RELATIONSHIPS: When it comes to relationships life has taught me alot of very harsh lessons that has helped shape me into the man that i am today but also that has forever scarred my heart ,mind and soul. As i stated earlier the same applies here.Be careful who you let into your life and who you you decide to build a future with as if you do it with the wrong individual and they can hurt you , demean you and scar you and your heart ,mind,and spirit in some instances for life. One of the most important lessons that life taught me was to always listen and follow your heart and trust your intuition and always follow your dreams and never deviate from them.I always say that the only individuals that you need in your life is the ones that prove that they need you in there's.Never allow your partner to force you to change who you are as an individual as if they can't accept you for who you are then they don't deserve you or your compassion.The problem with society today is that we are all caught up in the materials and possessions that a person can give them or they are concerned by a persons physical features and also for the sexual pleasure that the person in question can offer them. When an individual should be judged for there personality,heart,and mind,moral values,and the way they project themselves to the world and to you.Somewhere in the mist of time that concept was lost on people.
The one thing i learned is when love goes wrong,nothing seems to go right.Failing to consider your long-term relationship goals or talk and communicate with your partner on this matter can have an adverse affect on the union that you have established with each other. I learned that to always make time with your partner to reflect on the union that you have established with each other share ideas,thoughts and determine if you have reached a dead end.I also learned that no matter how long you have been with an person you should always continue to try to get to know one another further as by doing so it will further reinforce the bonds you have with each other and will allow for better understanding of each other and will further make you appreciate each other that much more in the long run.No matter how long you live with someone or they have been in your life there still alot that you can learn about each other.If you have someone special in your life or found true love do whatever it takes within reason to hold on to it as nothing in life is ever certain and just as fast as you find that person you can just as easily lose them. I am living testament to that.You never know if you will ever find love again and some of us never find it at all.the worst thing that you can do is base your relationship on material things as no matter how many possessions or riches you obtain true love can never be bought and in the end you will end up in a position to be forever wanting.
I also learned to never give in to your partners unreasonable demands or try to over compensate for what your partner perceives as a deficiency's in material or or there financial considerations or in satisfying there physical indulgences or intimacy fantasies or lust thoughts.If they no longer appreciate the things that brought you together and united you then it means that the relationship was meant for failure to begin with.I always felt that if both individuals in question make a concerted effort to dance the fine line between practical realities and sensual pleasures can put you in a better situation to resolve the issue at hand.Another thing that life has taught me is that no relationship is ever going to be perfect.Love is never perfect.There is no such thing.An underlying belief that perfection in a relationship exits is what creates such disappointed expectations in the first place and what eventually dooms most relationships. TO BE CONT
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