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One Day At A Time...
by luvinlifetou at 3/30/2008 7:40:19 PM

It gets so damn overwhelming sometimes.
The new challenges..single motherhood..working full time..new job, new trials and tribulations...friends that need support when you want need to lean on them....
Sigh.
Two little boys that need so much love because they miss their daddy every day...and cant tell them daddy is a big fat loser, and doesnt care about them enough to become a grown up and face life and deal with the fact that his CHILDREN miss him...(YEAH Johnny B...this ones for YOU baby...Your kids miss you every day, and all you have to do is be a man and face up to your responsibilities. To much trouble, huh?)

Whoops. There I go again. Thank Heavens Im not bitter, huh?!?!
But not matter how mad I am, I dont say anything bad about him..and MAN...I need stitches in my tongue sometimes...but..it would not be fair to them.
Nope.
So its one day at a time...one crisis at a time..one dropped transmission at a time... One more $400 dollar oil bill...
Add it all up...and its more than Apollo or Hercules could hold on his shoulders.
So, one thing at a time.
I am no Hercules. But for my kids..I will be a God. Or a Goddess, as the case may be. I will stay strong..when I want to crawl in the corner and whimper, I will pick myself up and dust myself off, again and again when life kicks me in the ass.
I can do no less.
They deserve no less.
And, come to think of it...neither do I.

Comments
familyguy58103



3/31/2008 10:55:09 AM

Hang tough darlin'. If you need help getting up off the floor- give me a holler ANY TIME.
luvinlifetou



3/31/2008 9:18:44 PM

Thanks sweetie..you are a true friend...and I so appreciate that! Love ya!

captainsmooth		4/2/2008 7:40:05 PM

Yes baby, you DO deserve it; you deserve a wonderful life with your wonderful kids. Remember, the Big Guy upstairs won't give us more than we can handle. Just keep your chin up and keep making it work day to day, that's all I do. Eventually things start to fall into place and I realize what a lucky sap I really am. My life's better for having met you and my future looks brighter. Thanks for being you, baby and don't ever stop.

musicman_zzz		4/4/2008 1:25:30 AM

I know almost where you're comming from. I'm sure that sounds a little strange, comming from a "man" huh? Children are very Observant, when it comes to how each person in their lives, treat them, and spend quality time with them. I know first hand. I received full custody of both of my kids when they were 4 and 6 years of age, so, they can see, who treats them better. Just be tough for "them", and say as much "good" things of their Father, as you can. Let "them" decide for themselves, who's doing what, without them being inticed on how, or which way, to think. You'll be so glad you did. J My 2 cnts.

defiantlyltr		4/6/2008 5:29:43 PM

When life sucks take a deep breath and blow!! If the bad breath doesn't knock it out then the shock of no resistance will!! Sometimes you just have to go with the flow and take one MINUTE at a time. No one knows this better than me. Ooppss! I forget I'm not alone. And neither are you my friend. Know that we're all in this together. The universe will give you your fair share if you only believe that you deserve it. So put that gorgeous smile on your face and put only positive thoughts in that pretty head of yours. Knowing is believing is receiving. Luvs ya'!

nascaman		5/4/2008 10:57:05 AM

You keep on truckin through this ordeal we all call LIFE. You are one classy lady. My ex said those things to my kids faces so you are aces in my book.What you feel like sayin and what you say have to be two different things when it comes to the children.If you ever need to vent or need a broad shoulder I will listen and i will be here