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| JUST TOO MUCH OF AN AGE DIFFERENCE....
by musicnmyheart4u at 4/14/2008 6:23:19 PM
SO WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THE AGE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN, AND IT'S EFFECT ON A RELATIONSHIP? I REALIZE THERE ARE SO MANY VARIABLES, BUT I THINK THAT IF THERE IS MORE THAN A 15 YEAR AGE DIFFERENCE IN THE RELATIONSHIP, YOUR ODDS OF MAKING IT LAST ARE VERY LOW. I MEAN, WHAT ARE REALLY GOING TO HAVE IN COMMON?
THIS PAST WEEKEND, A VERY NICE AND ATTRACTIVE YOUNG LADY CAME UP TO ME AND ASKED ME "HEY, AREN'T YOU THE GUY WHO USED TO COME HERE AND PLAY WITH THAT BAND....THE PIANO PLAYER?". I REPLIED "YES"...AND WITH THAT, SHE SAT DOWN NEXT TO ME AND INTRODUCED HERSELF.
WE TALKED FOR AWHILE, AND THEN SHE SAID "LISTEN, IT'S DEAD HERE."WHY DON'T WE GO GRAB A BOTTLE OF WINE OR SOMETHING AND GO TO YOUR HOUSE. I WANT YOU TO PLAY FOR ME." TO WHICH I REPLIED..."I DUNNO...I AM KIND OF DATING SOMEONE, AND I DON'T THINK SHE WOULD LIKE IT". AND OF COURSE, SHE SAID SHE UNDERSTOOD. ONCE SHE REALIZED SHE WAS NOT GOING TO GET A HOOK UP OR A FEW ROUNDS OF DRINKS OUT OF ME...SHE DID NOT HANG AROUND LONG. YOU SEE, THE THING IS, I KNEW WHY SHE WANTED ME TO TAKE HER TO MY HOUSE...AND IT WASN'T TO PLAY PIANO. AND, I AM NOT DATING ANYONE...I JUST TOLD HER THAT TO GET RID OF HER. HERE'S THE DEAL. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR ONE NIGHT STANDS OR WEEKEND SHACK JOBS. BEEN THERE. DONE THAT. IT WAS A LONG TIME AGO...THE LATE 80'S TO BE EXACT...BUT STILL, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT. I AM LOOKING TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE. WHY DATE THEM IF YOU ALREADY KNOW THERE IS NO CHANCE? YOU SEE, THIS GIRL WAS ONLY 22. YES, IT IS FLATTERING TO KNOW THAT AT 43 I STILL HAVE IT AND A 22 YR OLD WOMAN WOULD WANT ME. BUT A 21 YEAR AGE DIFFERENCE? VERY, VERY DIFFICULT TO OVERCOME.
I HAVE ALREADY HAD A COUPLE OF MY FRIENDS HERE TELL ME I AM AN IDIOT. WHAT DO YOU THINK?
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