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| Demeanor and Unconditional Love
by flirty_me at 4/24/2008 4:59:52 AM
I have been reading some of the great topics we have had the last few days and this is one of my favorites. It really takes away all the questions of what will you give up, how much make up should she wear, Should he shave or not shave, do you like this movie or that one. Many totally unimportant issues we sometimes spend hours discussing. Although, physical appearance is important, or the relationship would never have a starting place.
Demeanor pretty much says it all. I have taken it apart and put it back together several times and still find it the sum of essence for a relationship. If you add it to unconditional love, in the purest spiritual form, (I love you unconditionally), this also was on a topic lately, what else would there be to figure out?
What will I give up? What will I lose? NOTHING! You get a love that can withstand the test of time, with proper attitude and love for each other....don't you think all other issues could be adjusted enough for each to still be their own person and still make a delightful life together. If I said: where you go, I go; He said: where you go I go. What else can we do but hold hands and walk the path of life together. If my strongest desire is to make him happy, that will make me happy. How can we lose? If he is also wanting me to be happy. We each make ourself happy, within the demeanor of the love shared. My dreams change, his dreams change: They now become our dreams, we make the way for them to be reality.
You see someone, you watch them, you listen, you start to feel. Each time you see a little more of that person and soon you know. Deep down where no on else goes. That feeling sets the demeanor for unconditional love in a relationship. We see the weakness and strengths in people, build an opinion of them, soon that opinion is confirmed. We start to know the real person. We feel this emotion with no conditions at that point. It is called acceptance. Acceptance for the other to be the other and love them because of who they are and who they make us in the security of knowing each feels the same way. So in my rambling, I think the perfect form of Demeanor is with unconditional love. It is not spiteful, not puffed up, not petty, non judgmental. Unconditional, cannot have conditions.
We can discuss looks, but to have gotten this far to begin with, we would already know the person in looks is what we like. That pleasure in looking can go away if the person is not of the strength and character we admire. Thus the Demeanor of each person, belonging to the relationship is pleasing to the other and this forms the overall demeanor of the selected couple to be able to unconditionally love each other.
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