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| PERFECT MATCH
by 4la2x2 at 4/25/2008 11:04:37 PM
The need and desire for a mate is a very powerful one. God created us as pairs and being single is against our nature. The problem is with our expectations. We think we all have to have a fairy tale relationship. There are only so many prince charmings and only so many Cinderella. The rest of us, imperfect men and women, are stuck with each other. When we understand and accept this fact we can finally be happy with the person we have. Sure it would be nice if he were rich, handsome, generous, selfless, romantic… Sure it would be nice if she were gorgeous, smart, athletic and loved to do housework… But the fact of the matter is none of us have “all” those qualities. So, instead of thinking we are losing out, we should accept this world is not perfect. No person in it is perfect. No relationship is perfect. But, at the end of the day, an imperfect mate and a shared life beats the alternative.
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