| 6/3/2008 9:49:29 AM | why does some guys mistreat women............... | |
doll121
Middleport, OH
age: 51
| why would a guy mistreat a woman by arguing with them, calling them names and making them think they are nothing. when the woman is not like that.
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| 6/3/2008 9:52:05 AM | why does some guys mistreat women............... | |
lust4love
Atco, NJ
age: 38
| maybe because they use improper grammer?
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| 6/3/2008 9:56:08 AM | why does some guys mistreat women............... | |
doll121
Middleport, OH
age: 51
| who is improper grammer. he lays drunk.
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| 6/3/2008 10:12:13 AM | why does some guys mistreat women............... | |
man4life
Brooklyn, NY
age: 43
| why would a guy mistreat a woman by arguing with them, calling them names and making them think they are nothing. when the woman is not like that.
They are not in touch with their inner feelings and if they were they don't know how to communicate them other than being "manly" as their father and freinds taught them to be growing up. It's like two different computer programs trying to run simultaneouly without the proper sync software (communication). Both programs work fine on their own but clash when engaged. I have found that the beginnings of communication breakdown start when you begin to hear the phrases "YOU ALWAYS" and "YOU NEVER". As soon as they are heard both sit down and talk about what is really the problem and don't forget to share the feelings you have for each other for they are the reason that you two got together in the first place. In the beginning you both went out of your way to please each other now you go out of your way to blame each other. Reverse the prossess, take the first step. Give unexpected hugs and kisses. Do the little things you used to do and things will brighten up.
I can be contacted thru my DH mail if anyone has more questions. Its only $65/hr.
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| 6/3/2008 10:22:51 AM | why does some guys mistreat women............... | |
lust4love
Atco, NJ
age: 38
| who is improper grammer. he lays drunk.
What say you?
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| 6/3/2008 10:25:20 AM | why does some guys mistreat women............... | |
doll121
Middleport, OH
age: 51
| tis is an ex of mine. i was good to him and took his shit for fifteen years.
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| 6/3/2008 10:59:19 AM | why does some guys mistreat women............... | |
honeyhoney4
Benton, IL
age: 71
| Doll, this is HIS problem NOT yours. Just like on here "DELETE"
him OUT of your life FOREVER. He is HIS problem---NOT yours any longer.
Let him argue by himself; if you do NOT listen-it will NOT bother you.
Some men try to make their own mistakes others-because they cannot stand themselves.
Just look into a mirror and tell yourself you are past all this.
Then SMILE, laugh and make fun of your ex and the problems he caused you.
DO THIS SEVERAL TIMES AND BELIEVE THIS!!!!!!
Make a new beginning and leave FOREVER all the past bad memories!!!
Doll, you can be a NEW PERSON if you will allow this to happen,ok?
SMILE and the world smiles with you.
CRY and you cry alone.
**smile** gf,
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| 6/3/2008 11:17:43 AM | why does some guys mistreat women............... | |
stormygrl
Casa Grande, AZ
age: 42
| When a man mistreats a woman she needs to get herself away from the situation or she is partly to blame.........women who stay because they claim to "love" him are very weak in my eyes....there is always a way out of those situations...JMO
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| 6/3/2008 11:24:23 AM | why does some guys mistreat women............... | |
noredneckhere
Sevierville, TN
age: 48
| tis is an ex of mine. i was good to him and took his shit for fifteen years.
Why?
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| 6/3/2008 11:38:21 AM | why does some guys mistreat women............... | |
gaknight
Columbus, GA
age: 21
| honestly its because the guy is a complete loser and is worth less than trash and he knows it. So he turns controling to mentally seize a woman because he doesnt want her to leave him. Basically it is him trying to control the womans mind with abuse mentally or physically making them think they have to stay with them. Scenario 2 is the girl for some stupid reason she THINKS they love HIM. However she loves THINGS about him. She could find this in a better guy but she doesnt believe it because most of the time they have already gone through scenario 1. Sounds farfetched but this is a no BS reason why a guy will treat a girl like that and a girl to stay with them. It makes no complete sense but most of the time women have lower self esteem that guys so this crap becomes possible.
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| 6/3/2008 12:00:18 PM | why does some guys mistreat women............... | |
doll121
Middleport, OH
age: 51
| i am not with this guy anymore.
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| 6/3/2008 2:20:20 PM | why does some guys mistreat women............... | |
amethystjewel
Saint Helens, OR
age: 54
| They have LOW SELF ESTEEM & need to beat someone else down to make themselves feel better...They are unhappy with themself!!
There are women who do the same...
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| 6/3/2008 2:38:16 PM | why does some guys mistreat women............... | |
doll121
Middleport, OH
age: 51
| tis is an ex of mine. i was good to him and took his shit for fifteen years.
Why?
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| 6/3/2008 2:38:58 PM | why does some guys mistreat women............... | |
doll121
Middleport, OH
age: 51
| thanks nor. for quoting me.
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| 6/3/2008 4:02:29 PM | why does some guys mistreat women............... | |
noredneckhere
Sevierville, TN
age: 48
| tis is an ex of mine. i was good to him and took his shit for fifteen years.
Why?
Why'd you put up with it for 15 years. ? Just so you could carry the "victim" banner?
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