| 6/4/2008 10:42:36 AM | need some advice HELP!!!!!!!!!! | |
adrianmom06
Moss Point, MS
age: 24
|  I have been talking to this guy who I met at work back in October. IT was like we were suppose to be together( kinda like love at first site) We talked daily even not at work!!! We were best friends only shared one kiss. So when his ex (who he has four kids with wanted to get back together i pushed him to do it. So he did and that was in Jan, we have kept in touch but his relationship with her well there aint one. He called today and tells me he wants to see me and i am all he thinks about. HE is 38 and says he knows that it is jus not lust that he cares deeply for me. Wants to come see me tomorrow. I was like that is fine. So what i need help with is do you all think i should persue this and i know i care deeply for him ( haven't dated since he left and i think about him all the time to) or does it sound like he wants the best of both worlds.!!! i would like some advice and not any bashing please!!!! be honest!!!     
Thanks
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| 6/4/2008 10:45:45 AM | need some advice HELP!!!!!!!!!! | |
noredneckhere
Sevierville, TN
age: 48
| She's getting boring in the sack.
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| 6/4/2008 10:47:54 AM | need some advice HELP!!!!!!!!!! | |
adrianmom06
Moss Point, MS
age: 24
| LOL no she is a drug addict but he says only there for kids lol i know i sound like a idot!!
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| 6/4/2008 10:49:35 AM | need some advice HELP!!!!!!!!!! | |
lovesflowers2
Fort Smith, AR
age: 47
| Not bashing by no means...But looks like he wants the best of both worlds and to keep you tied up emotionally...Please find a hobby...talk to someone else...just don't let him come back...IMO, if he was any type of a man and really cared for you and your will being, he'd wait until he was competelty out of this relationship with his wife...Then you need to ask, am I ready for 4 children????? Something to think about...best of luck, hard decision to make...
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| 6/4/2008 10:51:22 AM | need some advice HELP!!!!!!!!!! | |
adrianmom06
Moss Point, MS
age: 24
| Ty flowers i know but then again idk!!!
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| 6/4/2008 10:52:05 AM | need some advice HELP!!!!!!!!!! | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35 online now!
| You fell in love.. he felt you up.
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| 6/4/2008 10:55:30 AM | need some advice HELP!!!!!!!!!! | |
cherokeerose07
Pottsboro, TX
age: 49
| Eddie your so Evil... move on Sugar! be the best move!!
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| 6/4/2008 11:33:06 AM | need some advice HELP!!!!!!!!!! | |
1bigiron
Stafford, KS
age: 45
| Thas bad news girl. he has a lot to work out before you can ever have something solid. hes just testing the fence.
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| 6/4/2008 11:47:24 AM | need some advice HELP!!!!!!!!!! | |
808_sm
Honolulu, HI
age: 40
| Don't meet. Don't see him. Just wait until he completely done with the ones he with. Meanwhile you keep looking, or in your case, start looking.
Plain and simple advice. But you know this already. Don't you?
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| 6/4/2008 11:57:36 AM | need some advice HELP!!!!!!!!!! | |
adrianmom06
Moss Point, MS
age: 24
| Thanks everyone for you advice!!! and yes 808 i do know this but how do i stop it!!! I have tried to move on even looking (ie being on here) but he is what i want and need
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| 6/4/2008 11:57:43 AM | need some advice HELP!!!!!!!!!! | |
muffycakes
Chanhassen, MN
age: 26
| good god no stay away from him. Don't settle on a confused man.
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| 6/4/2008 12:05:47 PM | need some advice HELP!!!!!!!!!! | |
knittinkitten
Lady Lake, FL
age: 72
| If you're strong enough to sit down with him and talk to him like you've talked to a whole bunch of strangers, you may just get your answers.
Be sure that, if you decide he is truly who you want, that you are mature enough and ready to care for 4 kids...you might end up with them and not just on visiting days...
My advice, it can't hurt to talk to him...and, while talking, remember there's much more than sex vibes here. Don't make any moves to be together in one household until after everything is settled. And, don't play games with YOURSELF. This is not something easy that you are taking on....not impossible, but certainly NOT easy.
That, if any, is the only advice I can give...not having been there myself, but having lived long enough to know how to see the other side of the coin.
Just my thoughts,.
Knittin Kitten
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| 6/4/2008 12:11:15 PM | need some advice HELP!!!!!!!!!! | |
adrianmom06
Moss Point, MS
age: 24
| kitten ty. the kids are not a problem because i have two year old myself. I did talk to him about it jus this morning he says he doesn't want her jus his kids!! he doesn't expect me to be their mom nor does he want us to move in to gether. He jus says he needs me!!! and sex is not a option because it's not gonna happen till i know for sure it is right did i metion that i only shared a amazing kiss with him!!!
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| 6/4/2008 12:19:58 PM | need some advice HELP!!!!!!!!!! | |
goodforfun51
Virginia Beach, VA
age: 53
| No offense girl.... But can you say; I am his BOOTIE CALL???
It's evident he wants to come sniff your flanks, while he still can run home and play house with his wife and kids. There are lots of people who are going to be hurt here and YOU are going to be the big, end loser!!! You did good by talking him into going back to check the situation out! They were on a "break then!" Now, YOU get to be the OTHER WOMAN!!!! 
Not the most prestigious place to be, lots of OMG time with this one!! Time to hold off until it's OVER there but not while you are UNDER him!
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| 6/4/2008 12:22:47 PM | need some advice HELP!!!!!!!!!! | |
adrianmom06
Moss Point, MS
age: 24
| No offense girl.... But can you say; I am his BOOTIE CALL???
It's evident he wants to come sniff your flanks, while he still can run home and play house with his wife and kids. There are lots of people who are going to be hurt here and YOU are going to be the big, end loser!!! You did good by talking him into going back to check the situation out! They were on a "break then!" Now, YOU get to be the OTHER WOMAN!!!!
Not the most prestigious place to be, lots of OMG time with this one!! Time to hold off until it's OVER there but not while you are UNDER him!
I HAVE NEVER SLEPT WITH HIM!!!!!! AND I AM NOT
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