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6/27/2008 4:52:52 PMSo, Is he or she interested in you??? 

ctrybunny
Brighton, CO
age: 49

everybody,


I was just thinking because I was reading the forums and one question came to mind.

Is he or she interested in you?
What are the signs?
What's next?


Let me know what your thoughts on this are.
And please share tips or advise on the subject...


just wondering

6/27/2008 6:04:32 PMSo, Is he or she interested in you??? 

doll121
Middleport, OH
age: 51

i don't know for sure but i am friends with a few guys on here.

6/27/2008 6:26:09 PMSo, Is he or she interested in you??? 

im14love2breal
Metairie, LA
age: 41

It's very easy to get fooled because of the other person's intention. If you take the time and let everything flow you start to get the drift. I have been hurt many times in the process. What i have learned is take your time.

6/27/2008 6:27:05 PMSo, Is he or she interested in you??? 

suzicutzi
Philadelphia, PA
age: 41

Dating 101...lol

6/27/2008 6:29:00 PMSo, Is he or she interested in you??? 

stopntrafic
Hartselle, AL
age: 47

Girl thats one hard question to answer, I had one man we talked online then I gave him my phone number, Well Things were good great even, I laughed he laughed but then one day boom he didnt show up online nor did he call, I sent him an email and nothing hes long gone and I dont have any idea why! He seemed very interested, he was making plan to meet and all, so that question is too hard to answer


6/27/2008 6:29:14 PMSo, Is he or she interested in you??? 
bonsaijoe
Vero Beach, FL
age: 41

 for suzi



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6/27/2008 6:29:27 PMSo, Is he or she interested in you??? 

missmmeoftheday
Brooklyn, NY
age: 42

I think if it moves from forum teasing to emails to then phone exchange and then meeting... that would seem to be a natural progression of things... But, if there is interest but distance is an issue, it might just remain emails and phone contact.

6/28/2008 8:46:43 AMSo, Is he or she interested in you??? 

ctrybunny
Brighton, CO
age: 49

Thanks for all you input.

It is hard to know thou.

I agree take to take your time.

most of us. have are caution signs up when we meet and start

talking with one another.

Wouldn't you agree?

still it's not an easy road.

6/28/2008 8:58:39 AMSo, Is he or she interested in you??? 

thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34

Very good question bunny.

You know a person is interested in you when:

1. #1 Their actions will always speak. Let me repeat that, Their actions will always speak.
Remember anyone can talk a good game or talk the talk. Listen, but one should pay more attention to the others actions. Pay attention to all actions big, medium, and small. Often times it's those small actions that will bite you in the A$$ later on. Hopefully the other person brings enough good actions to the table.

2. They won't make lame excuses for not meeting you. They won't flake out on you when you and whomever, are to go on a date. However, if something happens and it's legitimate, a sincere person who is true to the game, will make it up to you without being overly defensive. (For example, they will take you out for the next date etc preferably the within two days...) and the momentum builds from that (future dates and phone calls) instead of getting worse. A true sign they are into you.

3. They don't play silly phone games In other words, they don't have the attitude of "I am going to let ____ call me" or You know they are available, yet they don't pick up the phone. Or, they will call you when they know without a doubt, you are unavailable at the time, just to show and say at least they called you.
People who are interested in you will call and not even worry about taking phone scores. Unless however there is a big disparity of difference. Then there's a problem.

4. People who are interested in you will not give cheesy excuses such as, "I was busy all week. "Oh I'm going to be busy all weekend" Remember this, we all have busy schedules etc... But people will take the time out to do the things they really want to do - EVEN THOUGH, they are so called busy or legitimately busy. Hell, even in relationships, one or both get busy. Does that mean no more communication, no more spending time with each other? The same thing goes for marriage? REMEMBER THIS, If you are NOT IMPORTANT to them, they will not take the time to be with you - plain and simple. "THE BUSY EXCUSE IS so lame and played out already".

People who are interested in you will simply show many varying signs small, medium, or big that they are interested in you.



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6/28/2008 9:13:04 AMSo, Is he or she interested in you??? 

ctrybunny
Brighton, CO
age: 49

Bestman-

Your statement is true and sincere.

I tend to agree with you. If a person is interested they will go out of
their way to show you. The calls will come. the dates will come.
the conversations flow forever.

The I"m busy excuse always pops up when they are not. Or yes they always
call when you are the busiest. (so they won't have to go out with you)

Well said, and Thank you.


bny

6/28/2008 9:51:16 AMSo, Is he or she interested in you??? 

thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34

Quote from ctrybunny:
Bestman-

Your statement is true and sincere.

I tend to agree with you. If a person is interested they will go out of
their way to show you. The calls will come. the dates will come.
the conversations flow forever.

The I"m busy excuse always pops up when they are not. Or yes they always
call when you are the busiest. (so they won't have to go out with you)

Well said, and Thank you.


bny


Thank you bunny

Too note to piggy back of what I stated earlier regarding dating etc...

This is not always the case, but in many cases, if you cannot get two consecutive dates meanwhile thinking that you perhaps have something set up and something comes up on the other person's end; be mindful of that... Again, things do come up, but allow time to see what develops. Sometimes, another person is in the picture and they made plans with another guy/woman so they have to cover their tracts to make you think otherwise.

Again, if they are sincerely into you, there actions thereafter will surely dictate that.



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6/28/2008 10:00:25 AMSo, Is he or she interested in you??? 

sunny_08
Paintsville, KY
age: 59

Bestman...Very good advise from one so young (to me anyway)..I concur..

6/28/2008 11:52:11 AMSo, Is he or she interested in you??? 

thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34

Quote from sunny_08:
Bestman...Very good advise from one so young (to me anyway)..I concur..


thank you kindly sunny

6/28/2008 12:03:14 PMSo, Is he or she interested in you??? 

metu
Mansfield, TX
age: 47

When he slips me his penis...I'm pretty sure he's interested... Couldn't resist, Bunny! Spank me, I'm a bad girl!

6/28/2008 12:06:23 PMSo, Is he or she interested in you??? 
brujacakes
Albrightsville, PA
age: 36

Nice words of wisdom bestman as always.



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