| 6/29/2008 11:13:56 AM | For all the men out there | | 
pueblogal
Pueblo, CO
age: 39
| Ok guys say you meet a woman on a site and you talk to her for a few days then phone and the decision to meet What do you do for a first date and what do you expect on that date?
BE HONEST LOL
Pueblogal08
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| 6/29/2008 11:54:49 AM | For all the men out there | |
apfok1968
Shawnee, OK
age: 40
| I would have no more or less expectations than I would from a date with a woman I had met FTF.
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| 6/29/2008 12:05:38 PM | For all the men out there | |
justforums
Killeen, TX
age: 40
| Hell, I would just be happy if we could have the first date. I would pretty much do whatever it took to see her.
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| 6/29/2008 12:16:32 PM | For all the men out there | |
pueblogal
Pueblo, CO
age: 39
| What kind of women out there do guys like and would like to get to know? Looks, personality,weight.
Do men look at the person from the inside or outside to be asked out on a date?
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| 6/29/2008 12:20:02 PM | For all the men out there | |
saskguy
Assiniboia, SK
age: 44
| What kind of women out there do guys like and would like to get to know? Looks, personality,weight.
Do men look at the person from the inside or outside to be asked out on a date?
I have been reading profiles and the forums and seeing what they say before I say anything to them however this may not be the best way to go as I still have not got a date so good luck is all I can say
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| 6/29/2008 12:20:42 PM | For all the men out there | |
apfok1968
Shawnee, OK
age: 40
| Men notice the outside but become interested in the inside. Whole package, in that order.
[Edited 6/29/2008 12:21:22 PM]
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| 6/29/2008 12:23:44 PM | For all the men out there | |
justforums
Killeen, TX
age: 40
| The outside is what first attracts me, but without the inside its just eye candy. I require mind candy as well, LOL
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| 6/29/2008 12:32:50 PM | For all the men out there | |
bodevilio
Martin, TN
age: 52
| Ok this works for me,Make an agreement to meet somewhere public for 15 min's max,that way nobody get's their feelings hurt when you want to leave as soon as you get there,You can alway's meet again.(2)don't meet them at your favorite place,if you don't like them you don't want to keep running into them.The first meeting is just to see if there is a physical attraction anyway.(BO)
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| 6/29/2008 12:34:02 PM | For all the men out there | |
lostinpa61
Newville, PA
age: 47
| I don't expect anything but good conversation
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| 6/29/2008 12:39:20 PM | For all the men out there | |
justaguy37
Amarillo, TX
age: 38
| I would take things slow. Just have a good conversation over a nice dinner. Don't expect anything for now just get to know the other person. And if things go well set up something else later on.
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| 6/29/2008 5:01:20 PM | For all the men out there | |
hugsnlaughter
McKeesport, PA
age: 48
| Ok this works for me,Make an agreement to meet somewhere public for 15 min's max,that way nobody get's their feelings hurt when you want to leave as soon as you get there,You can alway's meet again.(2)don't meet them at your favorite place,if you don't like them you don't want to keep running into them.The first meeting is just to see if there is a physical attraction anyway.(BO)
I agree it should be a casual short date BUT 15 mintues? That is barely time to say hello and have a drink and if the person is shy, forget it! 
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| 6/29/2008 5:05:16 PM | For all the men out there | |
thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34 online now!
| It varies. There isn't a right or wrong answer. I've done just about everything on the first date. When you talk, you get a feel for the person i.e. introvert, extrovert, likes, dislikes, hobbies, etc... Based on those things, men should set a date with one or a couple of activities depending on the time they meet and too, can do something spontaneous if the situation calls for it.
Because the man set the first date, if there's a second date, it should consist of a couple of options bounced from each other and see what develops.
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| 6/29/2008 5:06:15 PM | For all the men out there | |
man4life
Brooklyn, NY
age: 43
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| 7/3/2008 1:39:37 PM | For all the men out there | |
bb58
Tulsa, OK
age: 50
| den has good answers. there was another topic I saw her reply on ,and it was great also.
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| 7/3/2008 1:50:16 PM | For all the men out there | |
baltimorebob
Gwynn Oak, MD
age: 58
| Take her out dancing and/or to dinner.
Then the best licking she ever received from a male
in her life - if she was up for it.
Bob
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