| 7/5/2008 6:17:56 PM | Startin a relationship help | |
danny121
Fountain, CO
age: 19
| Well i'm really interested in this one girl been talkin online for sometime and i'm headed home this wednesday to colorado. so should i try and set up a meetin with her?
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| 7/5/2008 6:19:06 PM | Startin a relationship help | |
thankuvets
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 40
| NO, its a guy just playing you... WHere is she again?? NO I will check her out for you, if she is okay I promise I will tell ya.. TRUUUSSSST meeee....... 
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| 7/5/2008 6:20:34 PM | Startin a relationship help | |
ryanneashley
Imperial Beach, CA
age: 19
| i think you should.
if you guys are pretty interested in eachother, then try it.
make sure you guys meet at a public place though. ya know?
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| 7/5/2008 6:21:14 PM | Startin a relationship help | |
lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
age: 51
| Oh Danny boy the pipes the pipes are calling from glen to glen and down the mountainside go man go yes do it..Life is too short to dilly dally round ...Yes yes yes ..   
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| 7/5/2008 6:24:21 PM | Startin a relationship help | |
missabbs
Clifton, TX
age: 20
| sure I don't see why not. worse she can say is no and then never talk to you again... see no worries lol
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| 7/5/2008 6:25:54 PM | Startin a relationship help | |
thankuvets
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 40
| SEE, its an OKIE thing, we just love to encourage.. LOL
HEY Tulsa girl, you be funny...
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| 7/5/2008 6:29:13 PM | Startin a relationship help | |
danny121
Fountain, CO
age: 19
| i think you should.
if you guys are pretty interested in eachother, then try it.
make sure you guys meet at a public place though. ya know?
Thats the problem i don't know if she is interested we talk sometimes now not as much as we used to.
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| 7/5/2008 6:30:00 PM | Startin a relationship help | |
danny121
Fountain, CO
age: 19
| sure I don't see why not. worse she can say is no and then never talk to you again... see no worries lol
thanks now i feel like i shouldn't do it  
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| 7/5/2008 6:30:24 PM | Startin a relationship help | |
ryanneashley
Imperial Beach, CA
age: 19
| then the only thing to do is ask. 
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| 7/5/2008 6:41:08 PM | Startin a relationship help | |
danny121
Fountain, CO
age: 19
| yea not that good at asking anything.
I seem all talkative online when u get me in person i shut up big time.
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| 7/5/2008 6:43:18 PM | Startin a relationship help | |
lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
age: 51
| Danny everyone is shy to a degree..Just remember that we are all human and all have similar doubts and all will be well.Just be yourself go for it....
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| 7/5/2008 6:46:59 PM | Startin a relationship help | |
fredricko
Pico Rivera, CA
age: 49
| dont think you should ask her to meet think you have complex,saw your other post regarding attractiveness,low self esteem,think you should work on that before you try working on relationship,consider this advice,knowing how easy it is to take it in wrong way
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| 7/5/2008 6:47:17 PM | Startin a relationship help | |
dateforfun2008
Columbus, GA
age: 30
| Does she know you are coming to town. Maybe when you talk to her again, just kind of drop that in there, and see if she brings it up. I am a shy one to, but sometimes you gotta bite the bullett, and face your fears....Break away from that shyness. I was the exact same way when I was that young, but 11 years later, I am much more bold. But i think that marriage, kids and just plain ol life lessons has taught me that....
go w/ ur gut...
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| 7/5/2008 6:47:43 PM | Startin a relationship help | |
hugsnlaughter
McKeesport, PA
age: 48
| Sure, why not, I say you never know someone until you meet them in person anyway. Online is just words on a screen. Face to face is when the real test comes and the true person comes out. Go for it.
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| 7/5/2008 6:50:31 PM | Startin a relationship help | |
thankuvets
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 40
| DUDE... LISTEN TO ME, I am being serious for once. YOU dont know me but this is a big deal, I am rarely serious..
YOU, have to talk, look at from this way, pretend you already been turned down and your getting a second chance to make an impression, no worries, you lost already, so now be yourself cause you have nothing to lose..
YOU practice that and when you talk to her under that impression, you will be confident, sure and she WILL notice.
I use to be very shy, most of my life, since my divorce, my friends made me talk to ladies, would have them come to the table, lie to them, beg them whatever it took.
One night as we all were laughing and goofing off, even my female friends, now just as friends, all night long.. bout midnight, this very attractive lady, my age asks one of my buddies if I was single, she asks to speak to me..
I spent the rest of the night talking to her, then we sat outside in her car, I ride a bike year round, so her car it was. We talked until dawn.. I bought her breakfast, we talked alot more..
She told me that watching me, talking and goofing off, just being me is what drew her to me... WE saw each a few more times, and then her job transferred her, so we talk now and then, but she taught me that being yourself? that is the only way to go, cause if this girls likes you, then it has to be for who you are.
So you have nothing to lose. ARE you engaged to her? Date her? Love her? NO!, so what does it hurt IF she does say no? NOTHING.
IF you dont ask, you may be passing up a great find, if she says no, then your free to move on.. Either way, you will know.. I dont want to spend months chasing a girl only to find out she dont like me..
So, here is an order....
ASK HER!
Thank you, that will be 500 bucks, and a big thank you, if it works out, then you can bow, if not, you will know at least..
Good Luck..
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