| 7/6/2008 10:21:23 PM | women confuse the hell out of me | | 
superhero1976
Springfield, MO
age: 32
| why is it when a man has his heart ripped out and stomped on and is left hurt no woman wants them cause they smell fear why wont one take a chance on them im fed up with i just want to be your friend
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| 7/6/2008 10:34:43 PM | women confuse the hell out of me | |
bry11ca
Canton, MI
age: 43
| why is it when a man has his heart ripped out and stomped on and is left hurt no woman wants them cause they smell fear why wont one take a chance on them im fed up with i just want to be your friend
Dude, until you get over YOUR trust issues you will not be ready for a relationship nor desirable to any confident woman.
Work on improving and healing yourself. It takes time.
Bry 
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| 7/6/2008 10:36:14 PM | women confuse the hell out of me | |
lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
age: 51
| Hi not all women are like that.....Women get their hearts stomped on too and the fear issue is true of both sexes. Remember to always be your true self dont try being someone and something that youre not.You sound very hurt I am sorry that you are feeling this way...Be open and honest with women like yoou are here and let them know yoou want to be a friend...It also helps to deal with yoour past hurts and try to move on before embarking in a new relationship...Leave the issues of the past behind talking about it too much sullies whats happening in the now. Go forward and have confidence in yourself and others...I am here if you need a friend...I wish you well and hope you find happiness.
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| 7/6/2008 10:37:26 PM | women confuse the hell out of me | |
macaroni2
Maricopa, AZ
age: 55
| Hun...it happens to us women too...and hopefully just makes us stronger...( wink ) Sea
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| 7/6/2008 10:43:52 PM | women confuse the hell out of me | |
ladyvirtue123
Magalia, CA
age: 52
| why is it when a man has his heart ripped out and stomped on and is left hurt no woman wants them cause they smell fear why wont one take a chance on them im fed up with i just want to be your friend
It may depend on what you are telling them too..I ran for the hills from one man that took me out to dinner and all during dinner he told me how hurt he had been with his divorce, and that he loved her more than life itself..that sex with her ruined it for any others after her...etc etc..get the picture? Why would I want to continue on with this person and feel like I am being compared to his ex..NOT going to happen...
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| 7/6/2008 10:47:03 PM | women confuse the hell out of me | |
superhero1976
Springfield, MO
age: 32
| i really hope there is no one in the world like my ex
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| 7/6/2008 10:49:26 PM | women confuse the hell out of me | |
onelife2live
Janesville, WI
age: 44
| i really hope there is no one in the world like my ex
I think I married your ex's clone...
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| 7/6/2008 10:54:11 PM | women confuse the hell out of me | |
superhero1976
Springfield, MO
age: 32
| im sorry if she tries to move someone in throw her out
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| 7/7/2008 12:30:02 AM | women confuse the hell out of me | |
natasha1962
Fulton, NY
age: 45
| why is it when a man has his heart ripped out and stomped on and is left hurt no woman wants them cause they smell fear why wont one take a chance on them im fed up with i just want to be your friend
Well listen to experience my friend, your ex did a number on you, and you survived it, lick your wounds and move on, best way to spite her is to regain a new life and a better outlook for a future, otherwise you will not only relive the nightmare, you will chase away future possible relationships, and Yes even friends get turned off from it. You need to heal, and move on, I have been there, and found moving on is the only way to get over it. Good luck to you. Now see we spoke to you in here, not all of us are bad people.
[Edited 7/7/2008 12:31:10 AM]
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| 7/7/2008 12:34:19 AM | women confuse the hell out of me | |
dirtrider123123
Angels Camp, CA
age: 39
| why is it when a man has his heart ripped out and stomped on and is left hurt no woman wants them cause they smell fear why wont one take a chance on them im fed up with i just want to be your friend
The reasn for that is that very few women want someoe that hasno confidence in himself. What I recommend is that ou start talking t every girl yu meet. You don't have to try t get her in bed, just try to strike up a conversation, or just say hi. The more you do this, the more you build up your confidence. Another thing: stop trying to b the nice guy!!! Whenyou do that, women both A. seethat your faking, and B. See you as someone they can use. Women are attrated to guys that know what they want and can't be stepped all over by them; in other words, MEN. 
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| 7/7/2008 12:55:53 AM | women confuse the hell out of me | |
roggor
Merlin, OR
age: 80
| Maybe it's not fear that is the issue. Maybe you're a downer because you're caught up in unresolved grief. Maybe after your grief has subsided you will be more attractive to women. No woman wants to listen to a man whine about his ex, or anything for that matter. If you were a woman, would you want to listen to you? Who were you before your heart got stomped on? Were you a happy person? If so, find that person and be him once again!
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| 7/7/2008 3:35:09 AM | women confuse the hell out of me | |
cnamncndy
Clinton, NY
age: 48
| good advice roggor
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| 7/7/2008 3:39:02 AM | women confuse the hell out of me | |
ladyinparis
Paris, TX
age: 41
| Maybe it's not fear that is the issue. Maybe you're a downer because you're caught up in unresolved grief. Maybe after your grief has subsided you will be more attractive to women. No woman wants to listen to a man whine about his ex, or anything for that matter. If you were a woman, would you want to listen to you? Who were you before your heart got stomped on? Were you a happy person? If so, find that person and be him once again!
You're the man Roggor!
(Edited for spelling--I know, 4 words--you'd think I could have gotten them right huh?!)
[Edited 7/7/2008 3:39:42 AM]
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| 7/7/2008 3:43:34 AM | women confuse the hell out of me | |
sdcentaur
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 48
| why is it when a man has his heart ripped out and stomped on and is left hurt no woman wants them cause they smell fear why wont one take a chance on them im fed up with i just want to be your friend
Men have 2 heads and one is meant for thinking. Sounds to me like your confusing the two
Suck it up, learn from it and move on.
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