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7/16/2008 5:11:02 PMwhy do men want their cake and eat it too? 
atime4change
Hillsborough, NH
age: 38


I never understood that If you have a great woman, beautiful,sexy, intelligent, loving, takes care of the home, pleases you in the bedroom, and just is all an all great all over what the hell more do you need?

7/19/2008 8:23:53 AMwhy do men want their cake and eat it too? 

eyezrbrn
Las Vegas, NV
age: 45


I cant think of anything.

7/19/2008 8:26:00 AMwhy do men want their cake and eat it too? 

arreis
Cottonwood, AZ
age: 46


why do men want their cake and eat it too?


...because its sweet?

7/19/2008 9:32:14 AMwhy do men want their cake and eat it too? 

wolfi
Albuquerque, NM
age: 43


Cake?
What cake?

7/19/2008 3:46:38 PMwhy do men want their cake and eat it too? 
sheeedevilspal
Bremerton, WA
age: 39


I don't get that saying at all. If I have cake, well I sure am not going to sit and watch it collect dust - I want to eat it!!! Otherewise what's the point of having the cake in the first place?

7/19/2008 4:47:49 PMwhy do men want their cake and eat it too? 
mlk2008
Brimfield, MA
age: 88


Well you know what. Assuming I can come across a woman that will offer half the stuff you mentioned, I would be greatful.

I don't ask for a lot. All of what you said is all of what I need from a female. Instead, I am receiving didly-squat from them.

How am I suppose to eat cake when it ain't no cake here?

7/20/2008 2:02:23 AMwhy do men want their cake and eat it too? 

bjk123
Layton, UT
age: 51


Quote from atime4change:
I never understood that If you have a great woman, beautiful,sexy, intelligent, loving, takes care of the home, pleases you in the bedroom, and just is all an all great all over what the hell more do you need?


Because when you do it all, they get used to it.... then they get bored and look for something different -- it's not you


jmo

7/20/2008 6:43:26 AMwhy do men want their cake and eat it too? 

drumrman
Belmont, MA
age: 43


Quote from atime4change:
I never understood that If you have a great woman, beautiful,sexy, intelligent, loving, takes care of the home, pleases you in the bedroom, and just is all an all great all over what the hell more do you need?


to me, that's the perfect woman. however, finding her seems almost impossible. if a guy meets a woman like that, he better hold on to her tooth & nail!

JMHO

7/20/2008 7:49:30 PMwhy do men want their cake and eat it too? 
mlk2008
Brimfield, MA
age: 88


Quote from wolfi:
Cake?
What cake?


Thank you. That's what I mean.

7/21/2008 9:36:20 PMwhy do men want their cake and eat it too? 

kwietkptkatie
Las Vegas, NV
age: 39


you have to let a man be a man and as long as YOU know that your shit is together and he too is takin care of home, and I mean all of the IMPORTANT things like family, shelter,bills and so forth, and if you can look at your self and don't feel cheated, hey it's a good thing girlfriend.

7/23/2008 10:09:06 AMwhy do men want their cake and eat it too? 

mrbigstuff617
Boston, MA
age: 31


Quote from atime4change:
I never understood that If you have a great woman, beautiful,sexy, intelligent, loving, takes care of the home, pleases you in the bedroom, and just is all an all great all over what the hell more do you need?


most of the time, people don't recognize, what they have before them, or don't know how to appreciate a good thing, until it is gone. It has always been my personal belief, that people only cheated, because they weren't being satisfied at home. And as a man who makes rational decisions, i think, a bird in the hand, is worth more than two in the bush. And when a man is able to stumble upon a woman, with the qualities inwhich you have just described, he better hurry up and bring her before the alter, because a good woman like that, is definately, a rare find, and precious jewel, that a man will either, die for, or spend the rest of his life trying to find.

7/23/2008 10:22:45 AMwhy do men want their cake and eat it too? 

fish_r_man
Aurora, MO
age: 48


Quote from atime4change:
I never understood that If you have a great woman, beautiful,sexy, intelligent, loving, takes care of the home, pleases you in the bedroom, and just is all an all great all over what the hell more do you need?



I think a lot of times a person thinks they are doing all the above when in reality they aren't and sometimes nagging, complaining, drama, whining and high maintenance wipes out all the above.

That being said, if I ever met a woman that did half of what you mentioned, didn't nag me to death and was in touch with the reality of my monetary capabilities, I would hold on to her forever.

7/23/2008 2:50:52 PMwhy do men want their cake and eat it too? 

mrbigstuff617
Boston, MA
age: 31


Quote from fish_r_man:
Quote from atime4change:
I never understood that If you have a great woman, beautiful,sexy, intelligent, loving, takes care of the home, pleases you in the bedroom, and just is all an all great all over what the hell more do you need?



I think a lot of times a person thinks they are doing all the above when in reality they aren't and sometimes nagging, complaining, drama, whining and high maintenance wipes out all the above.

That being said, if I ever met a woman that did half of what you mentioned, didn't nag me to death and was in touch with the reality of my monetary capabilities, I would hold on to her forever.


Good Point

7/25/2008 5:16:21 AMwhy do men want their cake and eat it too? 

clubkid66
Brooklyn, NY
age: 41


Women do it too. Some people want a relationship for security and somehing on the side for fun.

7/25/2008 5:20:08 AMwhy do men want their cake and eat it too? 

jmk83
Florissant, MO
age: 25


Quote from atime4change:
I never understood that If you have a great woman, beautiful,sexy, intelligent, loving, takes care of the home, pleases you in the bedroom, and just is all an all great all over what the hell more do you need?




I think it all comes down to a power struggle over who gets to make the rules. And some people women and men hook up with people they are physically in love with yet dont care one bit about who they are. Some women do it to us as well. I personally think that thereis just as many ignorant women in the world as ignorant men. There are also alot of good women and men out there. Theres someone for everyone, lol. I know that last one is kinda stereotypical and overused, but id thought id throw it in there.


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