| 7/21/2008 2:22:54 AM | How soon is too soon and could you ever?? | |
monique08
Arlington, TX
age: 18
| Okay.... Lets say your talking to this guy/girl and after a few days you decide to try and meet and start a real relationship but things keep coming up keeping you from meeting but you keep talking, and then this person after two weeks tells you they love you.. What do you say to that??? Can you fall in love with someone you have never meet??? Can you fall in love that soon??? What do y'all think??
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| 7/21/2008 2:27:12 AM | How soon is too soon and could you ever?? | |
dprincess
Concord, NC
age: 45
| Depends, did they take time to really talk and get to know you? or just through common chat stuff did the I love you bloom? Do you think you are falling for him?
I believe we can want love so much, that we can fall for a person. I believe people can fall in love before actually meeting, but it is only true love if withstands a in person relationship.
Good Luck!
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| 7/21/2008 3:07:22 AM | How soon is too soon and could you ever?? | |
hugsnlaughter
McKeesport, PA
age: 48
| I don't really believe you can fall in love without meeting the person, you may feel love toward them but not actually be in love. JMO
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| 7/21/2008 5:24:45 AM | How soon is too soon and could you ever?? | |
monty_python
Bridgeport, CT
age: 54
| Anything can happen. All things are possible. That's what makes this world so damn wonderful.
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| 7/21/2008 5:31:04 AM | How soon is too soon and could you ever?? | |
missedmatch
Cleveland, TN
age: 51
| it could be love....there are many types of love, i love different people differently...but to fall IN love with someone w/o meeting? i don't think so....until you meet face to face, you canNOT know how you will react to that person...jmo good luck
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| 7/21/2008 5:47:16 AM | How soon is too soon and could you ever?? | |
foxy_woman_49
Omaha, NE
age: 50
| I know many ppl who have
Best to you
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| 7/21/2008 6:03:17 AM | How soon is too soon and could you ever?? | |
swifteagle
Elk City, OK
age: 64
| An instant strong attraction, love at first sight if you will, is possible. I think that it would be pretty improbable for that to happen without meeting. Personally, I prefer to get to know people even if I feel a strong attraction to them. There is a lot at stake here and I would be more comfortable holding off on urges to see how well it plays out over time. Maybe that is a little too cautious but then I am not one to throw caution to the wind given the gravity of it all. JMO - hope it helps.
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| 7/21/2008 6:17:22 AM | How soon is too soon and could you ever?? | |
jessicka
Dellroy, OH
age: 34
| No you cannot love someone you don't know...and you do NOT know them after a few days, you definatly don't know them without meeting them in person. People can pretend to be someone they are not when they comfortable hiding behind a computer.
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| 7/21/2008 6:24:36 AM | How soon is too soon and could you ever?? | |
newlife4me2
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 43
| I sometimes crack up at all the people that post how its impossible to love somebody you've never met.
I think back to the days in the 1800 or 1900 when there were no telephones, no computers, nothing for people from geographically different areas to utilize except the written word. How many romances, relationships and marriages began because of correspondence? Many I am sure.
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| 7/21/2008 6:31:35 AM | How soon is too soon and could you ever?? | |
beanz991
Houston, TX
age: 41
| I sometimes crack up at all the people that post how its impossible to love somebody you've never met.
I think back to the days in the 1800 or 1900 when there were no telephones, no computers, nothing for people from geographically different areas to utilize except the written word. How many romances, relationships and marriages began because of correspondence? Many I am sure.
Romance doesn't mean love...to love someone you have to KNOW them...you can never fully know someone from correspondence alone.....people lie in correspondence. Yes people lie face to face too but only by being around them for a period of time do you get to see the true person and not the persona presented.
Love to me is putting a person before you, their needs/wants/safety besides the physical aspects of it too etc. How would you feel that way about what amounts to a complete stranger?
A lot of desperate people think they are in love but in reality they just want it so bad they believe it.
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| 7/21/2008 6:33:11 AM | How soon is too soon and could you ever?? | |
alicekathleen
Fresno, CA
age: 63
| No. And what are these "things" keeping the two from getting to know one another? Sounds as though someone
is desperate to connect. Time will tell!
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| 7/21/2008 6:36:51 AM | How soon is too soon and could you ever?? | |
judit0606
Big Stone Gap, VA
age: 51
| A lot of desperate people think they are in love but in reality they just want it so bad they believe it.
 Exactly!
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| 7/21/2008 7:23:05 AM | How soon is too soon and could you ever?? | |
talldude123
Albuquerque, NM
age: 33
| I sometimes crack up at all the people that post how its impossible to love somebody you've never met.
I think back to the days in the 1800 or 1900 when there were no telephones, no computers, nothing for people from geographically different areas to utilize except the written word. How many romances, relationships and marriages began because of correspondence? Many I am sure.
I don't think so. the world was a MUCH bigger place back then. I really don't see how anyone can fall in love w/o meeting. The fact that you are not even in the same area as eachother, there is the absence of pheremones intermingling. I think it is more the idea of being in love with love then anything else.I have fallen fast and hard before, but never after just two weeks.
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| 7/21/2008 7:44:04 AM | How soon is too soon and could you ever?? | |
nowurtalking
Amarillo, TX
age: 43
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| 7/21/2008 7:49:02 AM | How soon is too soon and could you ever?? | |
katsclown
Palm City, FL
age: 46
| I sometimes crack up at all the people that post how its impossible to love somebody you've never met.
I think back to the days in the 1800 or 1900 when there were no telephones, no computers, nothing for people from geographically different areas to utilize except the written word. How many romances, relationships and marriages began because of correspondence? Many I am sure.
you make a very good point.. unfortunately people had a different attitufe back then.. we live in a disposable society
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