| 7/24/2008 8:19:41 AM | Our second and third date | | bellav72
Albuquerque, NM
age: 36
| I meet this wonderful man on my - space and we been talking for almost a month.. and finally had our first date the other night and it was a WOW!!! now tonight is our second date.. he is cooking for me at his place.. and i am so excitied.. last night we talked on the phone for 3 hours.. about everything and more.. and then he asked if i wanted to go to the lake saturday and sunday.. jet ski, sight seeing, etc.. now this lake is a lil over 2 hours from here. and he wants to rent a room.. now we have talked about the whole sex thing... but i am a lil worried that he will expect it and or i get a lil tipsy and attack him... lol.. but u think a third date should be one where we rent a room? ugh i am torn!! 
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| 7/24/2008 8:32:33 AM | Our second and third date | |
thyme4me
Calumet City, IL
age: 55
| moving kinda quick for having just met. Of course it all depends on your level of comfort. I would do separate rooms if possible or pass. But that's just me and a safety thing. Whatever u do, pls let us know so we know u made it back.
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| 7/24/2008 8:52:28 AM | Our second and third date | |
fitenite_forum
Grand Junction, CO
age: 50
| Be careful. Dont drink.
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| 7/24/2008 9:04:04 AM | Our second and third date | |
bellav72
Albuquerque, NM
age: 36
| maybe just a lil drinky drink lol but yeah i will be very careful
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| 7/24/2008 9:13:10 AM | Our second and third date | |
arreis
Cottonwood, AZ
age: 46
| bella, here is your chance to be responsible for your health. I know it is easy to want passionate sex, its human nature. But watch that causual sex thing. Make it a challenge and request proof of current HIV and STD testing......that goes for you too sweety. Protect yourself and start the relationship off on the right foot. JMO 
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| 7/24/2008 9:16:57 AM | Our second and third date | |
italianlady05
Omaha, NE
age: 53
| ohhhh sounds like a fun weekend for you ! You know, you could do the one room thingy just don't get carried away...snuggle and kiss and go to sleep...
I know how THAT is when you have a few drinks...so watch that and have fun ! Good for you hun! 
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| 7/25/2008 5:12:00 AM | Our second and third date | |
clubkid66
Brooklyn, NY
age: 41
| No, if you are worried about then don't until you feel comfortable.
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| 7/25/2008 7:52:57 AM | Our second and third date | |
bellav72
Albuquerque, NM
age: 36
|  UPDATE
He is totally wowing me.. Last night he cooked for me.. we did the dishes together.. laughed and kissed ALOT! I am so smitten by him, u guys..  I heart him so much already. We have told eachother everything.. talked about anything.. i told him about why my marriages ended and why i left my home town.. he told me about his college years.. his family.. his work that he loves doing.. We still havent did the DO.. and he is not pushing for it.. well not alot anyways lol.. he is always telling me how beautiful i am.. how i make him laugh.. how animated i am.. and its nice really nice to have butterflies again!! and i havent done anything embarressing yet.. and believe me i am always tripping on a shadow.. or saying something stupid.. I am so comfortable with him.. We rented a movie and i layed my head on his lap.. He read to me.. which is one of my biggest attraction to a man.. then about midnight i came home.. honestly i came home cause i knew if i stayed things would have went a lil farther then i wanted right now.. I am really looking forward to going to the lake with him and spending time together.. I even went and bought a new suit already lol.. We will be taking pic's so i will post them so u all can see the man that has me smitten.. 
I have one major fear.. that i will get it in my head that he will do what my ex did to me.. and i will push him away with it.. i know i gotta get passed what my ex hubby and i did.. and for the most part i do.. but as alot of us know its not always that easy.. i have my battle scars and although alot u cant see there are still a few that r visiable. but i will try for myself to get over this.. to let things that scare me not worry me so much.. 
but thank u all for ur support.. u ppl are really awesome
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| 7/26/2008 2:40:58 AM | Our second and third date | |
texlonghorn
Lake Charles, LA
age: 35
| well JMO but becareful and don`t let him use you or play games w/you . listen to what he talks about and see if he`s mixin up his storys ,i have a lady that i`m best friends with in texas and she tells me how & about all her dates she has been on .and how many guys that she has caught in lies that they have told.But you shound like you have been there and done that just have fun and good luck ,cliff
PS, DON`T do the fake eye lashes ,,,
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| 7/26/2008 8:21:07 AM | Our second and third date | |
bellav72
Albuquerque, NM
age: 36
| lmfao i have to wear them .. i love them!! 
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| 7/27/2008 8:51:12 AM | Our second and third date | |
mtn_man_vail
Eagle, CO
age: 45
| Is it that bad to mention things you've done in the past with your Ex.
Im trying have some honesty about who i am and likes, dislikes etc.
to a woman i like.
Don't want her to think i'm hung up on her still, but 15 yrs together, hows the right way to talk about yourself to someone else without that comming up?
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| 7/27/2008 6:19:02 PM | Our second and third date | |
kanjikat
Victoria
Australia
age: 46
| Is it that bad to mention things you've done in the past with your Ex.
Im trying have some honesty about who i am and likes, dislikes etc.
to a woman i like.
Don't want her to think i'm hung up on her still, but 15 yrs together, hows the right way to talk about yourself to someone else without that comming up?
This one might have been better as a new thread?
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| 7/28/2008 9:12:13 AM | Our second and third date | |
bellav72
Albuquerque, NM
age: 36
|  UPDATE
Well we went to the lake.. and had a great time.. i love being in the water.. some of his and my friends meet us up there.. it was great bbq'ed... drank.. laughed.. got to know how he is around his friends.. And i was a good girl!!1 mother nature made a visit lol!! i got home this morning.. i am exhasuted.. and burnt!!1 i thought us latin girls could not get burnt to bad.. i was hella wrong lol.. so i will peel this week.. i didnt wear my new outfit.. oh well.. but he is a great guy.. i dunno about a love connection.. now really feeling any kinda love right now.. but we shall see... he was a total gent!! oh and no jet skies.. no where to rent them there.. sucked!! but anyways i am off to sleep for a bit... thanks all big kisses!!! muah
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| 7/28/2008 2:44:51 PM | Our second and third date | |
mtn_man_vail
Eagle, CO
age: 45
| Is it that bad to mention things you've done in the past with your Ex.
Im trying have some honesty about who i am and likes, dislikes etc.
to a woman i like.
Don't want her to think i'm hung up on her still, but 15 yrs together, hows the right way to talk about yourself to someone else without that comming up? This one might have been better as a new thread?
you are probably right! thanx
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