| 7/24/2008 8:35:54 PM | This isn't working...I'm too shy to do this... | |
krcjr
Panama City, FL
age: 36
| ...besides, this internet thing has never worked for me, & apparently is never going to work....all I ever run into are people from overseas trying to scam me for money. I've tried everything...different pictures...different things in my profile...just tired of it all...this internet dating thing is a joke. I'm a nice guy, but that doesn't count. You can insult me, call me whiny, do whatever you want, I don't care anymore...
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| 7/24/2008 8:43:46 PM | This isn't working...I'm too shy to do this... | |
alicekathleen
Fresno, CA
age: 63
| I am not going to insult you, why do that? It is probably not going to work for me, either, but it is fun to enter
the forums, chat with the folks on the state chat and same age group. More amusing than tv! As for meeting
a partner, I will rely on real life, my church, out and about, same interest activities and clubs. Or, I may never
meet a partner at my age, in which case I have decided to buy a trailer and move to the beach! (I am shy flower too)
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| 7/24/2008 8:44:44 PM | This isn't working...I'm too shy to do this... | |
bubbadt
Kennedy, NY
age: 66
| ...besides, this internet thing has never worked for me, & apparently is never going to work....all I ever run into are people from overseas trying to scam me for money. I've tried everything...different pictures...different things in my profile...just tired of it all...this internet dating thing is a joke. I'm a nice guy, but that doesn't count. You can insult me, call me whiny, do whatever you want, I don't care anymore...
buh byeeeeee.
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| 7/24/2008 8:47:39 PM | This isn't working...I'm too shy to do this... | |
garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48
| Whinney? No Discouraged? Yes... Weed them out... Can't tell you how many idiots that have contacted me...the scammers, the perverts and the out and out take care of me guys..sexually or financially. Give me a break. Yes I too get discouraged but it probably happens to us all I'm guessing. I've met some nice guys on the net...just not on the same page in life and had different goals. Give it some more time and don't be so shy.... I know easier said than done. However I use to be so shy I'd cross the street if someone was coming my way just so I wouldn't have to say hi. People literally scared the daylights outta me. Not anymore, met someone very outgoing and taught me a thing or too. It is fun to get out there and talk to others...You can do it!
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| 7/24/2008 9:05:01 PM | This isn't working...I'm too shy to do this... | |
krcjr
Panama City, FL
age: 36
| ehhh I've been on here too long, people just want to scam you, anyway. The ones that are interested are always too far away. Some people just aren't meant to be with anyone. Goddamn, I'm still a virgin & probably always will be. NO ONE is serious on this site, anyway.
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| 7/25/2008 6:08:18 AM | This isn't working...I'm too shy to do this... | |
krcjr
Panama City, FL
age: 36
| uh, no, it's not irrelevant...I've been on here for years with NO replies...& I take that to mean that I'm either not attractive enough, or a loser....which I'm not surprised at either...I've always been a loser at love. If I were the only man on earth, with 100 women, the human race would die with me, because NONE of the hundred women would want me!
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| 7/25/2008 6:13:18 AM | This isn't working...I'm too shy to do this... | |
beanz991
Houston, TX
age: 41
| Getting over shyness is very easy. If you go with the mindset you are going to get turned down then after the first few tries it becomes easy.
Expect the worst and hope for the best.......The worst being she laughs at you...BIG DEAL....why worry about that to the point it ruins your life!?
The more you try the less difficult it is...hell I have walked around a nightclub in the past and been turned down probably 20 times and it hasn't bothered me in the slightest...because sooner or later it will pay off.
Being to scared to ask will get you no where.
Faint heart never won a fair lady.
EDIT: Oh and forget attractiveness...I'm as ugly as sin and have dated some knockouts.
[Edited 7/25/2008 6:13:52 AM]
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| 7/25/2008 6:25:45 AM | This isn't working...I'm too shy to do this... | |
journey2smile
Oswego, IL
age: 33
| Lighten up on yourself, my friend. If nothing else, use this site as a training tool. You know, chat with all kinds of people, get to know a little about them. You may even get to know more about yourself in the process. You live in a cool place, there is half the battle. Just be yourself, no more no less. I got you by 12 years or so, and I haven't given up.
I agree
Smile hon.
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| 7/25/2008 7:10:53 AM | This isn't working...I'm too shy to do this... | |
krcjr
Panama City, FL
age: 36
| Smile? Why? I'm 35, & a virgin,...what the hell is there to smile about?
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| 7/25/2008 7:20:24 AM | This isn't working...I'm too shy to do this... | |
arreis
Cottonwood, AZ
age: 46
| Ok....you're 35, still a virgin. Been on the internet for years without sucess. And now you have decided to throw in the towel.
Dude, I say....kick your shoes off, grab a bottle of wine and a blanket and head for the beach. Flirt and introduce yourself to ever single woman you see. Step out of your comfort zone....its time to try something new and exciting, because apparently what you are doing now IS NOT WORKING!
Good luck! 
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| 7/25/2008 8:14:47 AM | This isn't working...I'm too shy to do this... | |
witchiepoo
East Hampton, CT
age: 48
| You say you've been here for years???
why does it say "joined June 2008"???????
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| 7/25/2008 9:19:26 AM | This isn't working...I'm too shy to do this... | |
klassyklown
Bakersfield, CA
age: 40
| ehhh I've been on here too long, people just want to scam you, anyway. The ones that are interested are always too far away. Some people just aren't meant to be with anyone. Goddamn, I'm still a virgin & probably always will be. NO ONE is serious on this site, anyway. You are allowing your cup to be half empty instead of half full. Life and this site are what you make them. Look at all the kind, sincere posts above and realize you get the bad with the good, and you decide what to focus on! Good Luck!~Klassy
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| 7/25/2008 9:24:23 AM | This isn't working...I'm too shy to do this... | |
baltimorebob
Gwynn Oak, MD
age: 58
| I'm sure the 63 year old lass wouldn't mind some fun
with a 35 year old guy.
Does your Tongue Work ?
Bob
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| 7/25/2008 11:27:02 AM | This isn't working...I'm too shy to do this... | |
krcjr
Panama City, FL
age: 36
| Ok, witchiepoo, I meant on & off of this site for years(but much more on than off).
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| 7/25/2008 11:28:34 AM | This isn't working...I'm too shy to do this... | |
krcjr
Panama City, FL
age: 36
| Arreis, I do even WORSE in person!
[Edited 7/25/2008 11:30:35 AM]
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