7/26/2008 3:43:22 PMWahWahWah....WhaWhaWhaWha...what was that, mam'm? 

mindyb
Park Rapids, MN
age: 44


Adversarial Procedure? Your thoughts on poor oppositional tactics. Me? If they cant communicate with respect they soon sound like charlie browns teacher. What was that mam'm? Were you talking to me?

7/26/2008 3:45:54 PMWahWahWah....WhaWhaWhaWha...what was that, mam'm? 
fitenite_forum
Grand Junction, CO
age: 50


Celebrate DYSTERIVY!! (This message brought to you by the Dyslexics fo Mareica..)

7/26/2008 4:31:53 PMWahWahWah....WhaWhaWhaWha...what was that, mam'm? 
v2_3
McHenry, IL
age: 45


Quote from fitenite_forum:
Celebrate DYSTERIVY!! (This message brought to you by the Dyslexics fo Mareica..)


I kinda like this one! As an adversarial tactic, it's almost unbeatable!

Why must one use "oppositional tactics"? Why not simply state your opinion and let it go at that? There are too many here in the forums who feel that "my way" or the handy block button is the way to be persuasive. JMO

7/26/2008 4:33:24 PMWahWahWah....WhaWhaWhaWha...what was that, mam'm? 

mindyb
Park Rapids, MN
age: 44


To each a different drum.

7/26/2008 4:36:00 PMWahWahWah....WhaWhaWhaWha...what was that, mam'm? 

zeanah
Clarion, PA
age: 49


Kill them with kindness....be the better person....the best revenge is happiness!

"Z"

7/26/2008 4:44:27 PMWahWahWah....WhaWhaWhaWha...what was that, mam'm? 
fredricko
Pico Rivera, CA
age: 49


Quote from mindyb:
Adversarial Procedure? Your thoughts on poor oppositional tactics. Me? If they cant communicate with respect they soon sound like charlie browns teacher. What was that mam'm? Were you talking to me?
open for interpetation

7/26/2008 4:47:50 PMWahWahWah....WhaWhaWhaWha...what was that, mam'm? 

judit0606
Big Stone Gap, VA
age: 51


Quote from zeanah:
Kill them with kindness....be the better person....the best revenge is happiness!

"Z"



Yep! You're right, again, Z! Yes, you are...YOU GO, GIRL!

7/26/2008 4:49:45 PMWahWahWah....WhaWhaWhaWha...what was that, mam'm? 

mindyb
Park Rapids, MN
age: 44


Quote from v2_3:
Quote from fitenite_forum:
Celebrate DYSTERIVY!! (This message brought to you by the Dyslexics fo Mareica..)


I kinda like this one! As an adversarial tactic, it's almost unbeatable!

Why must one use "oppositional tactics"? Why not simply state your opinion and let it go at that? There are too many here in the forums who feel that "my way" or the handy block button is the way to be persuasive. JMO


7/26/2008 4:54:36 PMWahWahWah....WhaWhaWhaWha...what was that, mam'm? 

mindyb
Park Rapids, MN
age: 44


Quote from zeanah:
Kill them with kindness....be the better person....the best revenge is happiness!

"Z"
H A P P I N E S S ...thats the smart way. U rock!

7/26/2008 5:04:57 PMWahWahWah....WhaWhaWhaWha...what was that, mam'm? 
v2_3
McHenry, IL
age: 45


Um, Mindy? Was there something you meant to say up there where you quoted me? BTW- I do agree: different drums make for a more interesting back beat!

7/26/2008 5:16:43 PMWahWahWah....WhaWhaWhaWha...what was that, mam'm? 

arreis
Cottonwood, AZ
age: 46


I have to agree with you on this one V3. Seems sometimes people find it difficult to have reaonable discussions (hear a point-give a point) and then move on to next topic without holding any anger or resentments once the points have been validated. JMO


Quote from v2_3:
Quote from fitenite_forum:
Celebrate DYSTERIVY!! (This message brought to you by the Dyslexics fo Mareica..)


I kinda like this one! As an adversarial tactic, it's almost unbeatable!

Why must one use "oppositional tactics"? Why not simply state your opinion and let it go at that? There are too many here in the forums who feel that "my way" or the handy block button is the way to be persuasive. JMO


7/26/2008 5:41:38 PMWahWahWah....WhaWhaWhaWha...what was that, mam'm? 

zeanah
Clarion, PA
age: 49


Some of you women are true women. It is obvious to me and I appreciate the up swing of feminimity from fellow women.

We all know, but forget this....our emotions cause us to strike back, to prove they are wrong about your character. When in fact, those that believe in you is all that matters.

The haters love us to strike out and come back at them. To ignore them or say something nice and cordial drives them insane! They thrive on a good fight. When we do not give it to them, they will fight harder, but show their true colors. They make fools of themselves and everyone sees what the real deal is. They eventually move on because you cannot give them the misery they want to put on you.

We as women , know other women. Sometimes we do have to defend our honor, but in most cases, the truth is obvious and we do not have to fight back.

So in saying all of that....drive them insane, make them miserable because what they are doing to get their bash "fix" didn't work. They hate it and will be moving on to someone else, unfortunatly.

You all be good now...ya hear?

"Z"

7/26/2008 6:03:26 PMWahWahWah....WhaWhaWhaWha...what was that, mam'm? 
v2_3
McHenry, IL
age: 45


Zeanah- Very, very well said. I'm not above taking a swipe at someone, but since I cut my nails it's not nearly as tempting as it used to be!

I find it interesting that my dictionary lists the following definitions for "forum":

1) a place, meeting, or medium where ideas and views on a particular issue can be exchanged

2) court or tribunal



Arreis!

7/27/2008 4:16:20 PMWahWahWah....WhaWhaWhaWha...what was that, mam'm? 

mindyb
Park Rapids, MN
age: 44


With each i read i feel so sorry for them. No really how angry they are. I like the happy love stuff. be good give good get good....and a little smartass love to keep it light.