| 8/23/2007 4:02:17 PM | love. | |
lonelyhotelroom
Potosi, MO
age: 23
| do you think its possible to fall in love with someone before actually meeting? and, if that's not possible, how to some ppl who are near someone thier whole life and never really 'know them' fall in love with them? thoughts, explore.
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| 8/23/2007 4:03:06 PM | love. | |
waltagain
Duncan, OK
age: 34
| i dont think so, i think u can really like, lust, be infatuated, but not love
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| 8/23/2007 4:03:50 PM | love. | |
allinthedo
Tracy, CA
age: 30
| Love is a funny thing. I just cant seem to laugh!
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| 8/23/2007 4:10:06 PM | love. | |
peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 41
| Me either lol >.<
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| 8/23/2007 5:23:19 PM | love. | |
metu
Mansfield, TX
age: 46
| Sure, a lot of it is lust, but I'm an optimist....I'm going for the LOVE.
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| 8/23/2007 5:52:49 PM | love. | |
lonelyhotelroom
Potosi, MO
age: 23
| thanks guys. haha, once again another post, fails misreably!
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| 8/23/2007 6:05:45 PM | love. | |
007shark76
Beverly Hills, FL
age: 31
| I think it is possible to fall in love with the idea of someone before actually meeting. It is the sparks and chemistry involved with the physical interaction coupled with emotional bonding, similar beliefs and interests that leads to Love.
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| 8/23/2007 6:14:04 PM | love. | |
allwayzsparkle
Brockport, NY
age: 29
| Shark I agree with you, hell to me it just goes to show how two people can bond WITHOUT any sexual stimulation. If you ask me, Hell yas you can fall in love without even meeting a person face to face. Chemistry and mental connections sweetie. But now if the time does come and you have explored the sexual side of each other, and lets just say its not up to par, would you still have the same feelings???????? IF NOT maybe it was just LUST all along.
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| 8/23/2007 6:22:18 PM | love. | |
dpolish1
Cincinnati, OH
age: 31
| i agree with sparkle...love doesnt stem from the touch...its the thought and anticipation of touch far removed...words are what bonds us as a species!touch is confirmation..
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| 8/23/2007 6:24:31 PM | love. | |
metu
Mansfield, TX
age: 46
| That's why communication, & LOTS of it is essential. I haven't met in person my man yet, but we are always talking to eachother......& NO topic is out of bounds. The love is already there.....I'm confident the lust will follow.
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| 8/23/2007 6:33:29 PM | love. | |
bookshort
Marion, IL
age: 59
| I agree with sparkle and polish. Sometimes we "fall in love" with a person but do not know them, don't take the time to really get to know them, then when it is too late we discover the "real" person. So, maybe it is better to take it slow and easy. Besides, what is the rush? Imagine a blind person meeting the love of his/her life. Is it love or lust? he/she can't see the person but he/she gets to "know" them differently from the "seeing" world, right? I am not saying that all their loves are made in heaven, I'm just trying to point out that "seeing" isn't exactly "believing", ya know what I mean?
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| 8/23/2007 6:38:11 PM | love. | |
allwayzsparkle
Brockport, NY
age: 29
| Very well spoken Book!!! You provided a very good example!!!
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| 8/23/2007 7:31:26 PM | love. | |
mrcareful2001
Chittenango, NY
age: 47
| No...conversation and the internet is fantasy. Meeting, attraction, long term compatability...reality.
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| 8/23/2007 7:50:33 PM | love. | |
allwayzsparkle
Brockport, NY
age: 29
| MrCareful, so I take it you dont like the intangible stuff. You must keep an open mind dude. Like Lotto, you neva know!!
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| 8/24/2007 9:09:33 AM | love. | |
redheadnc
Midway Park, NC
age: 29
| no
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