| 8/2/2008 1:52:01 PM | does anyone feel lost since their divorce? | | blessedlady48
 Largo, FL age: 50
| i feel so lost and confused ,,,its so hard for me ,,,does anyone else feel like that?
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| 8/2/2008 2:58:28 PM | does anyone feel lost since their divorce? | |
greeneyedgirl52 Savannah, GA age: 56
| I was like that for many months, then I decided I had to get on with my life, but that still didn't make it any easier. It just takes time. Keep busy. Don't give yourself the chance to brood.
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| 8/2/2008 4:07:10 PM | does anyone feel lost since their divorce? | |
blessedlady48
 Largo, FL age: 50
| thnk u ,,,,i am doing my best ..i wish it wasnt so hard to find a new man,,,
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| 8/2/2008 10:32:48 PM | does anyone feel lost since their divorce? | |
 musicandsmiles Portland, OR age: 54
| I HATE the night time ... being alone, empty time to think about all the "shoulda's, coulda's and woulda's". Yes, it's hard to think of the wasted years and how this late in life, it's so darn hard to start over. Sure can feel hopeless at times
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| 8/3/2008 1:05:16 AM | does anyone feel lost since their divorce? | |
blessedlady48
 Largo, FL age: 50
| i know about the hopless nights ,,but i [ray all the time to god,,and i got really close with himm,,and i find he really comforts me when im sad,,,and also i have hope to find that special one again,,,we have to keep positive through this hard time....
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| 8/3/2008 3:40:14 AM | does anyone feel lost since their divorce? | |
mrq423 Racine, WI age: 55
| Blessed, I was a zombie for a year. It took 18 months, and $17,000
to become "free" again. I got my maiden name back, lost the house, and
had to sell everything we owned, but I survived.
You have to take it one day at a time.
Now 4 yrs. later, I could not be happier.
You have to be content with yourself, before you can give to another.
Be patient. It is well worth the wait.
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| 8/3/2008 5:46:23 AM | does anyone feel lost since their divorce? | |
web_rose Phillipsburg, NJ age: 48
| Hang in there it gets better. I think we all go through a period of adjustment. I was very scared because it was the first time I ever had to be completely on my own, and take care of all those things that a husband would normally do. There was no one there anymore that I could lean on for support. However, after being divorced for 4 years, I've grown so much as a person and as an individual, that I would never be afraid to be on my own again, and I actually find myself happier and more content now, than I was being married to someone who was so cold hearted. I would like to have love in my life again some day, but if I don't, I know I will be just fine. 
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| 8/3/2008 10:51:20 AM | does anyone feel lost since their divorce? | |
blessedlady48
 Largo, FL age: 50
| tha nk u wonderful ladies ur inspiration was really a great blessing to me...
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| 8/3/2008 10:53:45 AM | does anyone feel lost since their divorce? | |
 sensuousmagic Grand Prairie, TX age: 57
| Only right at first I was. But time heals the mind from the divorce.
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| 8/3/2008 12:41:25 PM | does anyone feel lost since their divorce? | |
blessedlady48
 Largo, FL age: 50
| well ty for the hope,,,
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| 8/3/2008 6:45:50 PM | does anyone feel lost since their divorce? | |
 musicandsmiles Portland, OR age: 54
| After my first divorce I was single for 16 years. Put my thoughts, energy and life into the job. Then met an incredible man and married. By the end of the first year he had an affair with a young lady 25 years younger than him. By our third year we were separated and eventually divorced. It's been 3 years since the divorce and I still hope that I can find someone who thinks, dreams and wants to live life to it's fullest, like me ... but to be honest ... it's hard to keep hoping. But keep your chin up. And yes, God is someone who listens to our prayers and grants them as he sees fit. I know by finally adopting a beautiful little girl as a single parent when I was 36 and having my biologial son at the age of 44. I am raising them both alone, truly a single parent. But just proves ... God has a sense of humor too!
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| 8/3/2008 7:39:09 PM | does anyone feel lost since their divorce? | |
blessedlady48
 Largo, FL age: 50
| lol...god does have a sence of humor..i was amrried for 18 yrs and all together 21 yrs,,,i am not believing im single,,,its like im in a trance
i wake up and say where am i ,,,i cant wait for this to flee from me,,,,
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| 8/3/2008 7:47:15 PM | does anyone feel lost since their divorce? | |
dover10 Cartersville, GA age: 37
| I was brought up to believe that marriages last forever. Nobody obivously reminded me that you actually have to be in love for a marriage to work. I am so lost now. I've moved on with my life but I still have to wonder if I will ever find anybody that is meant for me. If there is a happy ending. Good luck and know that your not alone.
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| 8/4/2008 2:27:13 AM | does anyone feel lost since their divorce? | |
mrq423 Racine, WI age: 55
| Dover, that's why we are all here. They say misery loves company.
But laughter is the best medicine. You are not alone. We all try to help each
other, to be able to go on...in whatever form helps.
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| 8/4/2008 3:40:55 AM | does anyone feel lost since their divorce? | |
 spunky49 Weatherford, TX age: 49
| I have felt lost since I have divorced 23 yrs ago and yes I have moved on with my life and I am a one happy camper but one sollution my son is 28 yrs old married with 2 kids and he is still angry with me after the divorce which was not my fault ! My ex is the one that cheated, not me ! How can I cope with my son ?
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