| 8/30/2007 6:00:21 PM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
love_libra
Yermo, CA
age: 38
| I agree with freshstart48. That's the way you gotta do it! Don't get pressured into sex if you really like someone, because that doesn't mean you'll keep him yours anyway. It's much easier to get to know someone first. Know how to say no and be strong. You'll weed em out (the good from the unwanted). I've been single 7 years and this is most likely why my long term relationships (5 being the longest) never worked and probably why I'm still single. But I'm not giving up. I love this site, It's so cool, and it's free. Unbelievable! Take care.
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| 8/30/2007 6:18:09 PM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
cinders1
Yukon, OK
age: 55
| wow does this topic hit home, just had a problem with a guy because of this issue, I think if you want a romantic relationship you have to have passion etc, then if that goes good in time you will learn if you like the person, respect then etc. and then also are friends, but without the passion, WHAT ??? most friends do not become lovers, lets be honest, i think guys use that friend first because they are scared they might not like the women then they don't have to do anything but say told ya i just wanted a friend, HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM in another forum guys all said they are really looking for love and sex not friends
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| 8/30/2007 6:25:35 PM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
indygal123
Greenwood, IN
age: 51
| I lost my hubby 4 years ago of a marriage of 29 years. Yes it is hard to get back into the dating thing. It's hard to trust others. I believe being friends first is the best cause if you cannot get along as friends then you will not as lovers.
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| 8/30/2007 6:29:32 PM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
cinders1
Yukon, OK
age: 55
| Ahhhh come on guys, what do you really want BE HONEST---- it is sex then friendship not in the reverse order
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| 8/30/2007 6:39:39 PM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 41
| Cinders, We really try not to be so shallow and encourage everyone to seek long term not a "quick fix"...jmo
xoxoPeaches.
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| 8/30/2007 7:06:28 PM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
c_hunter44
Hornbeck, LA
age: 53
| Have tried yahoo personals and e-harmony, been alone for 5 years now after 26 years of marrage. Would love to find someone that dont want the moon, just a plain country boy that has love to give and honesty about life. What ever happened to trust in a relationship? Some of us men work hard all our life to give all we can to a woman we love then they just up and leave for some flashy guy. So tell me whats the use.
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| 8/31/2007 9:31:47 AM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
cutiepie870
Piggott, AR
age: 21
| sure...sounds good
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| 8/31/2007 9:37:35 AM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
sis1947
Wynantskill, NY
age: 60
| A solid friendship is the basis for a good relationship to move forward. 
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| 9/1/2007 6:26:49 AM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
looking4you1972
Tulsa, OK
age: 36
| i agree with that befor you can be lovers you have to be bestfrainds
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| 9/1/2007 6:13:59 PM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
worleybird07
Gwinn, MI
age: 44
| Thanks for the advice. I finally got to #3 now if I could get to #4 I'll be set.
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| 9/2/2007 8:58:00 AM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
high_boy
Raleigh, NC
age: 52
| I think you are so correct. It's that most ppl ur looking for that teenage thrill again. It‘s not going to happen. Most women know what a man looks for and vice versa but as friends there is respect and caring which makes for good sex.
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| 9/2/2007 1:58:06 PM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
heyitsmedarlin
Atlanta, GA
age: 61
| Any relationship, like a house, needs a strong foundation to weather the winds of adversity that blow throughout that relationship. Friendship is that foundation and needs to be there before I proceed, but that's just me.
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| 9/3/2007 10:46:12 AM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
cindylee1123
Toronto, ON
age: 43
| hi cindy on line
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