| 8/25/2007 7:59:45 PM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
nofunalone
Kewanee, IL
age: 55
| i have been divorced 6 yrs now after almost 31 yrs of marriage. I went out with one man since the divorce and he told me all men had three things one their minds , you either eat it ride it or sleep with it. well since i wouldn't let him eat, ride or sleep with me i never saw him again. it is really scarey going out again after only being with one man in your lifetime.
[Edited 8/25/2007 8:04:40 PM]
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| 8/26/2007 3:24:44 PM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
clness1
Walkersville, MD
age: 43
| Youve got a lifetime ahead of you.and that mans words does not hold true to all,fact men are single becouse of words as such,,also i know the fear of dating,,im still trying..
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| 8/26/2007 5:22:24 PM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
sgtjunkit
Marysville, WA
age: 54
| Don't let one man or 2 men rune the hole tree.. there are some of us old schooled men out here haveing as much trouble finding a woman thats not after our money or just a one night stand.. don't know what happen to just going out and haveing fun and enjoying the one thats with you .
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| 8/26/2007 6:00:49 PM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
butterfly2382
Louisville, KY
age: 26
| i feel best frined can make the best lover and more
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| 8/27/2007 6:29:11 AM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
irish57
Sodus, NY
age: 51
| I try to not harden my heart,but I've noticed that pre-conceived notions of collective gender are hard to surpass or overcome,as in gunshy.
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| 8/27/2007 8:03:39 AM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
chs1964ohio
Hebron, OH
age: 44
| I am so glad, I am not the only one, who feels this way. Looking for a real relationshop not just a roll in the bed. A real date, get to know the person, become friends, and then more if it is right.
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| 8/27/2007 1:22:18 PM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
freshstart48
Quakertown, PA
age: 48
| I can relate to whats been said here. Both genders get raw deals. It seams like if you give selflessly your taken advantage of in most situations. But not all people are rotten that way just 98% of them.
Heres my advice.
1) keep your eyes open but don't jump in to quick look for that 2%
2) learn to say NO!
3) be self sufficient so you don't need anyone
4) you must be happy with yourself before anyone will be happy to be with you
Most people would say I'm crazy for taking another chance to find someone. Maybe I am or maybe I'm just a hopeless romantic. Anyhow here I am looking just like you are. Good luck to everyone.
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| 8/27/2007 1:45:54 PM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
millie76
Hendersonville, TN
age: 54
| hey nofunalone, I understand totally. I was married 26 years and then my husband past away. I have been struggling ever since. Dating is so hard,just don't give up.
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| 8/27/2007 10:30:23 PM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
40miles2dance
Wharton, TX
age: 63
| I too agree with what has been said above. There are lots of good folks out there and there are also lots of selfish folks too. You are going to have to like yourself first, and then take your pick, but don't give up. For some, this voyage is going to be a long cruise.
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| 8/27/2007 11:25:19 PM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
lancer123
Sumner, WA
age: 53
| Well hi milly I was married 24years And i would say my wife passed away to Would you like to date me where do you live sweety
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| 8/28/2007 8:17:03 PM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
glelvis
Shreveport, LA
age: 50
| thats not true; not all guys or like that;i dont jump in bed with any one; if i see someone im really wanting to be with, then i respect that lady;and dont push anything; sex can always come later;i think its better that way.
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| 8/29/2007 2:22:21 PM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
looking4you1972
Tulsa, OK
age: 35
| i agree im not just looking for someone to sleep with im looking for someone to share my life with maybe you all can help
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| 8/29/2007 3:20:17 PM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 41
| Post in alot of the threads and let everyone get to know you! I wish you all the best of luck and it's nice to meet you.
xoxoPeaches.
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| 8/29/2007 3:45:57 PM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
dewboy
Coker, AL
age: 27
| the friend thing can be alittle funny sometimes. If you know too much about that person its like being with your brother/sister
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| 8/29/2007 7:57:15 PM | anyone wanting to be friends first and then maybe something else later | |
nonickname49
Belchertown, MA
age: 58
| You need to be friends first, to get to a serious relationship, you have to
get to liking before loving, best friends, share secrets, private thoughts, trust
in simply knowing that the other is there, when needed. I think the meaning and
word friend is tossed about just like the love word, there are different levels
within, but each in their own is simple and pure. Being close friends first, leads
to a strong intimate, relationship, it is the foundation for which love and a ltr
is built upon. jmo
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