| 9/1/2007 7:25:13 PM | why | |
fuicyprincess
Greenfield, IN
age: 29
| I was in a five year realtionship, when suddenly my mate found someone else. He bascially just stopped talking to me. He willnot even let me have my clothes. IT gets worse i just found out i was pregnat. i told him and he was exstatic(we tried for 3 years) then the next day he wont talk to me.
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| 9/1/2007 7:31:30 PM | why | |
knightnyte2
Spring, TX
age: 55
| maybe he found out and got scared. and if you were seriously working at having a child, and he was messing around during this time... better your child knows someone else as the father. Not too many ways to spell JERK... other names fit, but ...
good luck. i'm sure you will have no problems getting financial aid for the child, plus.. call the cops, they'll go with you to get your things. might have to go so far as a judge, but i doubt that.
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| 9/1/2007 7:42:43 PM | why | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| He was basically a sperm donor. He can make babies but obviously he doesn't know how to be a father.
[Edited 9/2/2007 11:48:56 AM]
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| 9/1/2007 7:52:55 PM | why | |
floyeeyy
Riverside, CA
age: 39
| He's a dead beat but the legal system can handle that.Dont worry there will be someone special just for you and your child and i'm sure things will get better.
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| 9/1/2007 7:54:49 PM | why | |
peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 41
| I'm so sorry that someone would treat you that way...but, like they said..don't give up. there are many great men out there and your gonna be just fine. chin up we're here when you need us 
xoxoPeaches.
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| 9/1/2007 7:55:24 PM | why | |
lewis69
Temple, TX
age: 39
| The guy is an idiot. He has no idea of the joy and happiness he is denying himself and your baby. His loss, not yours. You just go and get yourself setup on prenatal care and on anything else you think you need. And make him pay child support, don't wait on that at all. Trust me, you'll regret it if you do.
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| 9/1/2007 7:58:42 PM | why | |
barbarac
North Kingstown, RI
age: 59
| your better off without him. You will find someone worthy of you and your child.
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| 9/1/2007 8:08:22 PM | why | |
shygirl4now
Pensacola, FL
age: 32
| I've been there princess...It's sucks to be left that way but in the long run he'll be the one to suffer....You have the best of him there is and thats the baby..God won't put on you anymore than you can handle..I had my baby alone in the hospital and she's the best date that I've ever had...LOL
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| 9/1/2007 8:17:59 PM | why | |
buster123
Fredericksburg, VA
age: 47
| The guy is a blooming idiot. I raised three kids by myself because my ex decided she couldnt take care of them. Can you guys believe that...a mother giving up on her kids. I know it sounds nuts but it really happened. Anyway, I raised them and they all became remarkable smart adults. As a matter of fact, getting hopefully one more grand child tonight. I think the count is at 5 grandkids now..man their keeping me busy and broke.
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| 9/1/2007 8:24:35 PM | why | |
peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 41
| I do not nor will I ever condem my mother for not raising us...There had to have been a reason I know nothing about...I just know I love my father with all my heart and i think they both did the best they could
xoxoPeaches.
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| 9/1/2007 8:33:06 PM | why | |
buster123
Fredericksburg, VA
age: 47
| peaches..my was another man.
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| 9/1/2007 8:35:53 PM | why | |
peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 41
| At least she did right by letting you raise the kids
xoxoPeaches.
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| 9/1/2007 8:37:57 PM | why | |
buster123
Fredericksburg, VA
age: 47
| your right..I get a little emotion about the whole thing sometimes, but your right theri not in jail and their earning a good living. Guess I did something right. Forgive and forget.
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| 9/1/2007 8:42:31 PM | why | |
peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 41
| yes, althogh it is so much harder to do than to say..your right but, if we wish ppl hard times..we will only find pain
xoxoPeaches.
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| 9/1/2007 8:48:43 PM | why | |
buster123
Fredericksburg, VA
age: 47
| peaches..your right.
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