| 8/27/2008 12:39:13 PM | i have a question.help please | | 
sweetnessb
Stinnett, KY
age: 35
| well i know iam an attractive women who is fun to be around iam also a nice person who is cosiderate of other people and i know there are lots of other people around who would love to go out with me but i do have a tendency to attract emotionally abusive men and i dont know why.
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| 8/27/2008 12:41:31 PM | i have a question.help please | |
holdinpanama
Panama City, FL
age: 45
| not trying to be a smart a** by no means but the ole saying walk tall and carry a big stick beat the crap out of them with whatever you can get your hands on
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| 8/27/2008 12:44:27 PM | i have a question.help please | |
divorce2
Milford, OH
age: 45
| You don't have low self esteem in a marriage until you get hit on all the time. Men like you too, would make woman run away. Being in an abuseive relationship is hell, I am italian and catholic and my family beliefs we don't get divorced. You just put up with all his shit, and you take it. Now You get strength to walk away but after sometime of the hell. but you do. I am a strong person, but until you walk in any womans shoes who have gone through this don't make remarks on what kind of woman we are.
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| 8/27/2008 12:45:23 PM | i have a question.help please | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| You don't have low self esteem in a marriage until you get hit on all the time. Men like you too, would make woman run away. Being in an abuseive relationship is hell, I am italian and catholic and my family beliefs we don't get divorced. You just put up with all his shit, and you take it. Now You get strength to walk away but after sometime of the hell. but you do. I am a strong person, but until you walk in any womans shoes who have gone through this don't make remarks on what kind of woman we are.
When you say "hit on all the time" do you mean "hit all the time"
there's a big difference....
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| 8/27/2008 12:47:31 PM | i have a question.help please | |
gator59
Las Vegas, NV
age: 49
| well i know iam an attractive women who is fun to be around iam also a nice person who is cosiderate of other people and i know there are lots of other people around who would love to go out with me but i do have a tendency to attract emotionally abusive men and i dont know why.
I think you have a point sweetness. you said " I am an attractive woman, fun to b around and nice person" you hit the nail on the head. your nice.. so they are nice at first then they break you down..
I can't stand abusive people men or women it's cruel whether physical or mental. And for you sweetness because your so "nice" I think you tend to look to the good in everyone. I have the same problem. Thus we get crapped on. JMO
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| 8/27/2008 12:48:24 PM | i have a question.help please | |
holdinpanama
Panama City, FL
age: 45
| i am talking about the women not putting up with there shit carry a bigger stick and beat the hell out of him he has to sleep
sorry if i wrote it wrong by no means do i believe a man should abuse a woman verbal or anything did not mean it hope my apology you will accept
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| 8/27/2008 12:49:49 PM | i have a question.help please | |
divorce2
Milford, OH
age: 45
| I mean every other day . thrown in bathtubs. etc.....
I totally want to change this subject, because it does upset me to think about it. And you seem like a nice guy, and it is great that you have never been through this.
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| 8/27/2008 12:51:42 PM | i have a question.help please | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| I mean every other day . thrown in bathtubs. etc.....
I totally want to change this subject, because it does upset me to think about it. And you seem like a nice guy, and it is great that you have never been through this.
That sucks.. and no.. I'm not a nice guy.. and yes I have been through a relationship with a physically abusive partner.
Kinda makes you a tad distrustful of people after that.
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| 8/27/2008 12:53:55 PM | i have a question.help please | |
divorce2
Milford, OH
age: 45
| that it does.
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| 8/27/2008 1:07:56 PM | i have a question.help please | |
divorce2
Milford, OH
age: 45
| i am talking about the women not putting up with there shit carry a bigger stick and beat the hell out of him he has to sleep
sorry if i wrote it wrong by no means do i believe a man should abuse a woman verbal or anything did not mean it hope my apology you will accept
I like your ideal about a big stick, but my luck I would of hit him and got caught. I was thinking about cement shoes??????
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| 8/27/2008 2:23:35 PM | i have a question.help please | |
808_sm
Honolulu, HI
age: 41
| just wondering
what type of women do abusive men seek out?
again only wondering
I would think the answer is...No particular type of woman. They are going to abusive to all women they are in a relationship with. I am guessing it is not something they can turn off and on.
The ideal situation is for the women to get out of the relationship at the first sign and not stay in it to the point where the abusive guys knows too much. Like how many her friend and family can really help the woman and how many will just stand idling by give advice.
But I don't think they seek a particular type of woman.
[Edited 8/27/2008 2:24:19 PM]
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| 8/27/2008 7:26:35 PM | i have a question.help please | |
bb36575
Sumter, SC
age: 47
| I think its the other way around, What type woman want to be with the bad boys, nearly all of them. I guess they think they can change them.
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| 8/27/2008 7:32:58 PM | i have a question.help please | |
sharolas
Elk Grove Village, IL
age: 38
| I think they go for the vulnerable ones.
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| 8/27/2008 7:37:28 PM | i have a question.help please | |
rocker_goddess
Pittsboro, MS
age: 18
| UNFORTUNETLY I know from experience they go for the loniest ones.... when someone is lonely they will love anyone that loves them. But a woman should never low her expectations to a man that will a lay a hand on her in a harmful way...
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| 8/27/2008 7:47:29 PM | i have a question.help please | |
kinston28501
Kinston, NC
age: 41
| That is a really tough question. I don't think abusive men seek a particular personality trait in a woman or even seek a woman with intentions of harming her. The better question is if a man is abusive towards a woman, why would she not at least leave him?
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