| 9/20/2007 6:43:55 PM | Good or Bad: Knowing Who Has Viewed Your Profile | |
wanderlust78
Lebanon, TN
age: 30
| I'm incredibly new to this site. As in, less than twenty-four hours. But the site is very user-friendly, so I've nosed around and already feel relatively comfy in this new skin.
But in my journey, I came across a little link that allows you to see who has viewed your profile so far. I took a gander, and was disappointed to find that some of the people who I have written viewed my profile, but didn't read the message sent to them.
So my question is this: Is knowing really that good of an idea? I know better than to be offended. When the Big Man is ready, Mr. Right will come along. But I can't help but feel slighted that of all the men that have viewed my profile, not one has contacted me.
Now, I'm a big person for constructive criticism. If you, oh reader, wouldn't mind... would you please review my profile and give me some pointers? Insults are welcome, within reason.
I personally feel that I gabble a little too much on both my "about me" as well as a blog I posted for an "intro to me." But after having read several threads, the general consensus is that a lot of information is good.
So why do I feel like the drunk girl dancing by herself on the dance floor making passes at the amplifiers???
Penny for your thoughts...
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| 9/20/2007 6:45:56 PM | Good or Bad: Knowing Who Has Viewed Your Profile | |
waltagain
Duncan, OK
age: 34
| well when that happens i conttact them and say what the hell? am i not good enuff for u? u could give me a damn wink atleast
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| 9/20/2007 6:47:31 PM | Good or Bad: Knowing Who Has Viewed Your Profile | |
libra75
Garfield, AR
age: 32
| MY GOD!!!! They finally let me post mt pic!!!!!!    
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| 9/20/2007 6:47:42 PM | Good or Bad: Knowing Who Has Viewed Your Profile | |
wanderlust78
Lebanon, TN
age: 30
| LMAO. Too funny! *pause* Wait... you may have an idea there!! Lol. J/K
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| 9/20/2007 6:50:57 PM | Good or Bad: Knowing Who Has Viewed Your Profile | |
brwnsugar59
Albuquerque, NM
age: 48
| Both, good that someone is looking. Bad because looking but not talking sucks. JMO
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| 9/20/2007 6:51:29 PM | Good or Bad: Knowing Who Has Viewed Your Profile | |
brizby
Woodward, OK
age: 45
| Wanderlust.... don't let it bother you! I have been on this site for approximately 3 months now... and one minute someone is winking and you viewing your profile and emailing you on regular basis... then out of the blue... all stops... no explanations nothing.... I just don't let it bother me... you seem like a really sweet lady ... hang in there! and don't go  cuz it will just make you  and drive you to and end up doing something really out of character     ok... have fun, enjoy, and WELCOME!!!
BIG HUG.... BRIZBY
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| 9/20/2007 6:52:31 PM | Good or Bad: Knowing Who Has Viewed Your Profile | |
peregrina
Lumberton, NC
age: 52
| hey wonder, welcome to DH, I know you love it. Girl, you have it going on, you are beautiful, funny, smart.... etc, so you are yourself..... if someone read and pass by, that's okay.... yours is in his way, maybe they didn't have the qualities you looking for, is ok too, you deserve what you looking for, so you fine.Pull a chair, get in the forum and let's , . , say  and a lot of love ...... Here goes DH hugs..... straight to you sweetheart
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| 9/20/2007 6:52:48 PM | Good or Bad: Knowing Who Has Viewed Your Profile | |
grace_ful_heart
College Station, TX
age: 39
| don't worry about it! some folks are shallow but let me tell you that there are plenty of nice folks on this site.. give it a lil more time.
alright?
take care and best wishes!
remember it could be worse.. you could be getting tons of e-mail from folks you wish you wouldn't get mail from...lol
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| 9/20/2007 6:53:35 PM | Good or Bad: Knowing Who Has Viewed Your Profile | |
wanderlust78
Lebanon, TN
age: 30
| Thanks all, so far. I appreciate the support, and concur on the "no talking stinks".
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| 9/20/2007 6:54:41 PM | Good or Bad: Knowing Who Has Viewed Your Profile | |
soultrynights
San Clemente, CA
age: 39
| dont worry about it not everybody is gonna fall in live with you just give it time
welcome to our world
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| 9/20/2007 6:55:23 PM | Good or Bad: Knowing Who Has Viewed Your Profile | |
brwnsugar59
Albuquerque, NM
age: 48
| But the forums are a blast, most of the time. Enjoy
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| 9/20/2007 6:58:49 PM | Good or Bad: Knowing Who Has Viewed Your Profile | |
sommertime
Newport News, VA
age: 22
| i wanna know what this link is
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| 9/20/2007 7:03:16 PM | Good or Bad: Knowing Who Has Viewed Your Profile | |
wanderlust78
Lebanon, TN
age: 30
| Go to "my profile". On the bottom right corner, there are a few links. You can see a list of those people whom you recently viewed, see who is currently online and a few others. There is also the afforementioned link that will show you who has looked at your profile lately, with their picture, profile name and when they were online last...
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| 9/20/2007 7:06:59 PM | Good or Bad: Knowing Who Has Viewed Your Profile | |
txusmc81
Jacksonville, NC
age: 26
| Wanderlust I think your funny as hell, not in a annoying ugly type of way, but in a very attractive, tactful type of way. If anyone just judges by a profile one they are "Retarted" or "Special" (don't want to make the retards mad) and two they are here for the wrong reasons. If anyone that communicates with you can't see that, they have a low IQ.
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| 9/20/2007 7:08:36 PM | Good or Bad: Knowing Who Has Viewed Your Profile | |
mom1st
York, SC
age: 31
| Don't really know b/c I haven't winked or written to anyone who didn't do it first. But I have looked at alot of profiles, but I didn't write to them. Not because there was anything wrong with their looks or profiles, but b/c I was just checking it all out, but I personally am not ready to start actually dating. I just want to make friends thus far.
Now if a guy winks, I don't wink or email. But if they write an email I always return one.
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