Married women on DH

10/7/2008 9:11:57 PM	Married women on DH
potpie71 Gig Harbor, WA age: 37	I was curious... I know that there are men on DH that are married and for various reasons, are looking for a "companion". I'd like to know if there are any married women here at DH that might be "stuck" (for whatever reasons, it doesn't matter) in an unhappy marriage, or are unfullfilled by their husbands and looking for a man that might be in a similar situation or just looking for FWB type thing? If you don't feel comfortable posting about it, please feel free to write me privatly. THIS POST IS NOT TO KNOCK ANYONE DOWN FOR A MARRIED PERSON MAKING SUCH DECISIONS FOR THEMSELVES. ANYONE WHO POPS OFF AT SOMEONE FOR STEPPING FORWARD IN HONESTY WILL BE BLOCKED. Thank you, in advance!!
10/8/2008 5:27:23 AM	Married women on DH
opalcat Cincinnati, OH age: 49	I'm not married but I can understand why people who are legally married are here. Sometimes divorces are are a long process and they are lonely, however there could be legal consequence where children and financial settlements are involved. In regards to the cheater, I wouldn't get involved with them at this point in life, I have had FBs in the past. What people do is none of my business. People have different reasons for what they do. I judge no one. I do not have the authority. Linda
10/8/2008 6:52:31 AM	Married women on DH
potpie71 Gig Harbor, WA age: 37	Thank you for your reply!
10/8/2008 2:43:26 PM	Married women on DH
forestrose Calgary, AB age: 55	Nope, definately not married. However, when I was young, I thought it was always wrong, and often it is, for a married person to cheat. Life has shown me many situations that are not so clear cut. Some people need the security of knowing there is someone out there for them, when they leave. Some people have a partner who is not interested in sex, or unable. Sometimes people do meet someone who they fall in love with, and is a better match than their spouse. What should they do? I hope I would never cheat, and would not date a married person. Would I go out with them on occassion? Maybe, depending on the circumstances. But basically, I know married/single means alone on weekends, holidays, when you need them, keeps you from finding someone available, and that's just too much for me.
10/8/2008 3:01:01 PM	Married women on DH
sb1229 Cleveland, OH age: 43	I'm not married either but I could definately understand if someone that is married is looking. Been there, done that. People have thier own reasons that perhaps the "morally" right person doesn't quite understand. Unless you have walked in that person's shoes, don't pass judgement.
10/9/2008 10:01:04 PM	Married women on DH
rlds Ogden, UT age: 49	HUm, never thought of any women being married and be on this DH as I have about married men. Like other posters' statements.......it's not for us to judge but to understand where they are coming from. I wish them all the best. R
10/10/2008 6:06:56 AM	Married women on DH
judy1958 Conyers, GA age: 50	i'm no longer married either i'm a widow but as once a married woman i can tell you that just because your married and in a loving marriage doesn't mean you have it all..i was married for 31 yrs. and he was the most wonderful man and had aheart of gold but after 27 or so yrs. i felt something was missing..i wasn't satisfied anymore and felt alone..yes he was with me but that feeling of being alone and being with someone isn't a good thing..i've been there,done that and even though i know what a mistake it was and will never do it again,at the time i needed it and thought it was ok because i was missing something and had to find it..and no,i didn't find anything and the grass is not greener on the other side..we all make mistakes,some more than others and the hurt you cause the other is not worth it in the long run and the guilt eats away at you constantly if you have a concious that is..i don't judge others and don't wanna be judged..we all do what we do for our own reasons and till someone walks in yours or their shoes we can't say whats wrong or right for us or them..i do know that now when i see others in trouble and thinking of having affairs i so wanna preach to them and tell them that their gonna make a mistake that will never be fixed no matter what they do but i can't and to sit back and watch knowing the hurt their gonna cause and feel later on,is overwhelming to me..i learned too late that communication is the forst step to fixing a problem not an affair..good luck to everyone and god bless..
10/10/2008 8:37:41 AM	Married women on DH
potpie71 Gig Harbor, WA age: 37	I want to thank everyone who has replied.... you've all been so wonderfully kind by NOT judging or slamming, or saying inappropriate remarks. Again, this is just a question. I have a friend in this situation and thought it might be nice to find others that are in the same boat as my friend. Being "stuck" in a bad marriage can sure be a dark, lonely place... like one kind lady wrote: "I felt I was missing something". But this friend is in a REALLY bad marriage, and could sure use some friends that can relate to their situation. God Bless you all and your kind hearts! Keep the replies coming! Potpie71
10/20/2008 9:17:35 AM	Married women on DH
yankee_girl62 Oakdale, LA age: 46	I am married and had been for 20 years. I have been on here off and on, Just looking for someone to talk to, man or woman.
10/20/2008 8:23:43 PM	Married women on DH
alicekathleen Sacramento, CA age: 63	I am now living with someone, and getting ready to close it down, as soon as I help a friend place her cats (see Pet group). Times were hard between us for two years, but we are giving each other a second chance. I enjoy all the groups, games, talking with people from other states, but since it IS a dating site, feel that I should find some other groups. Maybe we could change Date Hookup to Friends Hook up!