| 9/22/2007 8:06:00 PM | when do you say enough and just walk away | |
simpleman1567
Barbourville, KY
age: 41
| i was married 20 years , nothing was perfect and i finaly left her . problem is my children was my life and i try so hard to talk with them but she convinces them that i have been some monster they never saw only god knows the truth , i always call them but they never answer, i text them they never answer or they tell me they are always busy , what should i do if they refuse to let me into their lives
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| 9/22/2007 8:07:54 PM | when do you say enough and just walk away | |
waltagain
Duncan, OK
age: 34
| what can u do?
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| 9/22/2007 8:22:56 PM | when do you say enough and just walk away | |
simpleman1567
Barbourville, KY
age: 41
| they are all young adults now and i am at wits end , maybe i should stop trying but as a parent how do you do that
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| 9/22/2007 8:27:30 PM | when do you say enough and just walk away | |
waltagain
Duncan, OK
age: 34
| well then there aint much u can do , but i think they will come around when they are ready
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| 9/22/2007 8:28:57 PM | when do you say enough and just walk away | |
polocko
Avon, MN
age: 52
| Sometimes its hard. went throuh it too. Can't blame the kids always. my x has a twisted mine and layed it on the kids and so their messed up in the head. one finily broke lose and got back to life at the age of 24. 
[Edited 9/22/2007 8:30:22 PM]
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| 9/30/2007 9:35:49 PM | when do you say enough and just walk away | |
simpleman1567
Barbourville, KY
age: 41
| thanks it all helps you know
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| 9/30/2007 10:12:23 PM | when do you say enough and just walk away | |
nicki1964
North Bay, ON
age: 45
| as long as they know you are trying to contact them, they will come around in time.
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| 10/1/2007 12:42:47 AM | when do you say enough and just walk away | |
rain_or_shine
Columbia, SC
age: 45
| OMG, I did all that and much more......I did, and it wasnt enough.......Good luck ok dude.....Shine..............
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| 10/1/2007 2:53:58 AM | when do you say enough and just walk away | |
newlife4me2
Saylorsburg, PA
age: 43
| My parents divorced when I was very young. My mother never bad mouthed my dad but my dad was never around for me emotionally or physically. When I was 16 something major happened in my life and my dad and I had a huge falling out. From that point onward, until I was 20 and expecting my first child, I did not speak to him or acknowlege his existence.
When I was pregnant I started to feel that he should at least be aware of the fact that he was going to be a grandfather. That is how we began a very slow process of reconnection and healing.
It didn't happen over night but today I can honestly say that my dad and I are very close and I am indeed a daddy's girl.
Hope this helps give you some hope.
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| 10/1/2007 2:56:12 AM | when do you say enough and just walk away | |
peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 41
| Most all Children know what "unconditional" love is..We could learn alot from them!
xoxoPeaches.
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