9/23/2007 5:51:55 PMShadows 

interdependent2
Shelby, NC
age: 54


For all of you who question why we shadows wish to remain in the dark and keep our profiles private here's one reason. Passed expeirence has proven that a posted pic and profile does not mean you will meet a great person or that it will increase your odds of doing so. It only increses responses that all. I met a really great guy on here without a pic or profile and we have been talking for weeks and shared our photos. Well we met face to face today and although I thought he was great before, I am convinced he is now. We gave ourselves time to get to know each other and our meeting today is all icing on the cake. I don't know where this will lead to but the sparks are flying. So ease up on us shadows. We know what we're doing and why. PS, He is a shadow too!

9/23/2007 5:54:22 PMShadows 

waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51


I am sooo happy for you. I hope it works out great. I believe it is everyone choice how they do their profile.

9/23/2007 5:58:57 PMShadows 

interdependent2
Shelby, NC
age: 54


Thanks Waytogo! I really hope you meet someone great too. Your a wonderful person from what I have read of your responses on here.

9/23/2007 5:59:27 PMShadows 

trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 51


I have to chuckle.. you go girl! We all learn something all the time

9/23/2007 6:10:48 PMShadows 

brwnsugar59
Albuquerque, NM
age: 48


Glad that works for you, good luck with your new friend. But I still prefer to see who I'm chatting with, but that's just me.

9/23/2007 6:18:54 PMShadows 

thepkk
Everton, MO
age: 53


me too brwsugar take off them glasses so we can see them eyes.

9/23/2007 6:28:08 PMShadows 

interdependent2
Shelby, NC
age: 54


pkk, I was thinking the same thing about bwsugar. Those glasses are his form of shadow. No offence there. I think they're cool. Thanks everyone and good luck on this highway to happiness!!!!!