| 9/29/2007 1:27:48 AM | ladie;s what do u expect of a man?living with u? | |
mscakes
Copperas Cove, TX
age: 47
| need help with this one men ur advice will do as well .just say someone u dated came to ur house say July4 and has been there since say's he don't want to go home he is trying to be with u, then tell u that he gave his house to his Son. and daughter in lawbut u never talked about moving in i hope i did this correct this will be my first time doing this but i need advice from someone?
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| 9/29/2007 1:34:45 AM | ladie;s what do u expect of a man?living with u? | |
waltagain
Duncan, OK
age: 34
| dump his ass for a white guy!
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| 9/29/2007 1:35:25 AM | ladie;s what do u expect of a man?living with u? | |
diamondblues
Winnetka, CA
age: 19
| THIs guy seems to be making all the decisions her you have got to take control and tell him whats what he may not like but you'll feel better, believe it! did you invite him to move in?
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| 9/29/2007 1:55:15 AM | ladie;s what do u expect of a man?living with u? | |
mscakes
Copperas Cove, TX
age: 47
| no i did'nt i spent the weekend at his house then he was going to do the same
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| 9/29/2007 2:04:29 AM | ladie;s what do u expect of a man?living with u? | |
diamondblues
Winnetka, CA
age: 19
| So he invited himself?Hes pushing himself into your life well actually you encouraged him when you stayed at his house for the weekend 
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| 9/29/2007 2:07:28 AM | ladie;s what do u expect of a man?living with u? | |
ladyfireeyes81
Redwood City, CA
age: 27
| Sorry I would tell him to pack his bags... You don't move into someone's home unless you are asked to do so! If he isn't going to respect you with something like that, what makes you think he would ever respect you with anything? MAJOR RED FLAG THERE!!!!
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| 9/29/2007 4:00:03 AM | ladie;s what do u expect of a man?living with u? | |
truegrace
Hagerstown, MD
age: 52
| If you didn't invite him to stay he gave his house away without saying anything to you he is taking advantage of your hospitality, kick him out, I wouldn't want someone moving in on me that was and wouldn't have aloowed him to stay this long
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| 9/29/2007 5:29:22 AM | ladie;s what do u expect of a man?living with u? | |
gawd
Appleton, WI
age: 53
| If he doesnt pack his bags I would have them on the front lawn for him. Men only do those things if you allow it.
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| 9/29/2007 6:30:42 AM | ladie;s what do u expect of a man?living with u? | |
osipsc
Chicago, IL
age: 54
| If you didn't invite him, ask him to pack his bags. If not pack them for him and show him the door. His decision to give his house to his son was his not yours.
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| 9/29/2007 7:48:38 AM | ladie;s what do u expect of a man?living with u? | |
nopretense
Harleysville, PA
age: 47
| Major red flag. Your relationship is off to a horrible start. You have shown him that he can take whatever he wants from you with no concern for your needs, preferences, desires. He needs to go. You don't have to break up witjh him if you don't want to, but you MUST have enough respect for yourselft to establish some healthy boundaries, otherwise he will never respect you either.
Walt..you are usually a funny guy but your comment here sounds racist to me and in poor taste.
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| 9/29/2007 8:07:40 AM | ladie;s what do u expect of a man?living with u? | |
onlyforyou44
Helena, MT
age: 63
| You must be giving him something to stay for . Cut him off and he will leave.
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| 9/29/2007 8:24:28 AM | ladie;s what do u expect of a man?living with u? | |
classy777
Tulsa, OK
age: 61
| A woman's #1 rule should be not to let anyone take advantage us but unfortunetly we are nurturing and always want to make everything "all better" and what he has done is take that sweet side of you for granted...if you don't want him there then he has to go.Ok, back straight and head up.
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| 9/29/2007 8:30:42 AM | ladie;s what do u expect of a man?living with u? | |
1mt
Johnstown, PA
age: 54
| i have to agree with gawd
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| 9/29/2007 8:33:17 AM | ladie;s what do u expect of a man?living with u? | |
jondalar
Reno, NV
age: 52
| I would imagine you have already been thinking all of the things you have been advised to do by the previouse posters.
But the problem is how to get him out. He sounds like a guy who thinks he has a good thing going and is not going to move out because you nicely tell him you need your space. I think You might want to get some advice from those who have had to boot a freeloader out. Throwing all his things out on the front lawn and changing the locks is a strong hint but you seem like a good hearted soul and would probaly let him back in if he said he had no where else to go. That good heart is what he is counting on. Do not loose it just loose him.
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| 9/29/2007 8:37:40 AM | ladie;s what do u expect of a man?living with u? | |
thyme4me
Calumet City, IL
age: 55
| Better do it sooner rather than later. Does he have keys? Make sure he didn't pick urs up and make copies.....Get a male friend, relative over there to reenforce what u r saying to him.
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