 mjsmooth Santa Ana, CA age: 29
| It could just be me but the people I've contacted on here either are very shallow or they just plain suck!!! I contact people all over my area and get ignored for the most part. I know us Cali people can be something but this is ridiculous. Give me your thoughts!!
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 thenewme New Castle, PA age: 45
| welcome mj, are you sending winks or messages, I know messages (emails) get more attention than winks. Unless of course its one of those cut and paste messages. I hope thigs go beter for you here. There are alot of great people on this site. Just hang around the forums and meet everyone.
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 chopperbabe Overland Park, KS age: 47
| Welcome mjsmooth!!! I know for myself that if an email is a novel on their life then the first thing that comes to mind is spammer and I delete. A wink is to break the ice and a way to see if someone is interested in you as well. Emails are good too but as long as it's a simple email.
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 memerick Edmond, OK age: 28
| Hows it goin man the women on here are actually very sweet and will talk to ya i'm not gonna lie say there isn't any shallow ones but youll run into those anywhere you go just like guys
so don't give up yet mingle some more 
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 mjsmooth Santa Ana, CA age: 29
| I actually send e-mails to peoiple but sat the same time I make them short and sweet. NMo one wants an essay and at the same time if I think they shoiuld write back and show intial interest of some sort before I tell them about me. Then again I live in Orange County so I guess I can't be surprised. *LOL*
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 clickonme73 Eldon, MO age: 35
| hey know what u mean. i have been on here for months and have had been met with a cold shoulder most of the time. but now things r starting to change. more and more people r talking to me.
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 knotreel Belvidere, NC age: 35
| Most of them are gay
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