| 10/3/2007 7:24:45 PM | repent for your wrongful ways | |
catlin
Chambersburg, PA
age: 39
| My ex fiance cheated on me knowing this would end our relationship
he still took the risk and got caught, 2 months later he is calling me like
crazy and stopping by asking me if I need any help with bills,I told
him "I was never with you because of your money" out of the 21months we
were together he insisted once at the mall for me to get something,so
I did a pair of summer sandals that were on sale for 20dollars.
He replied "is that all your getting?" I said yes.
I have never depended on a man for financial support I have been
working since I was in the 10th grade and always took care of
myself and my boys on my own.
I told him "No Im doing good" and asked so how's the 3 girls you
are dating? he of course up til now denies all of them "WHATEVER".
I had all the evidence in front of my face proving he was cheating.
strange phone calls at night,voice msgs and him with this woman in
very intimate photos while I was away for a couple a days in LA.
He's reponse to the voice msgs and photos "they were a gag"!!!
yeah right "might be naive at times but not an idiot!!
Im still healing from the break up after all its
only been 2 1/2 months since the break up he messed it up and all I
said was "you made your bed "Now lay on it"!!!
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| 10/3/2007 7:31:20 PM | repent for your wrongful ways | |
wrexall9
Canyon, TX
age: 47
| To borrow another thread, I think you need a hug.
May I be of assistance? 
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| 10/3/2007 7:37:30 PM | repent for your wrongful ways | |
thepkk
Everton, MO
age: 53
| Sorry that happened to you Catlin I with the guy from Canyon TX I think you need a big
(((((((HUG))))))))) Cheer up girl there has to be better men out there for you.
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| 10/3/2007 8:43:35 PM | repent for your wrongful ways | |
laurad
Staten Island, NY
age: 39
| Your ex fiance'...is the best thing you NEVER did...making him your husband.
It's so typical of a man to try and find something to offer you to replace what he took...and what he ultimately offers is something you never needed in the first place? Seriously, it's like their lips are moving but they do just talk out of their asses!
You stay strong...knowing you're a better person for it...the truth has truly set you free!!!! One day you will actually be happy it turned out this way...
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| 10/3/2007 8:48:24 PM | repent for your wrongful ways | |
shygirl4now
Pensacola, FL
age: 32
| Your beautiful Catlin not only on the outside but you have alot going for you...His loss...and you know it. He's damaged goods not you...He screwed up...not you. Hold you head high girl..Better days are coming.
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| 10/3/2007 8:53:24 PM | repent for your wrongful ways | |
im_broken
Hermosa Beach, CA
age: 32
| Thats right Laura it's just like a MAN..thats right i forgot woman never do anything wrong and a woman has never pulled the same stunt her man did..Catlin i'm very sorry you had to go through that and now he's just trying to get back in the door because he knows he lost someone wonderful..i've had a very similar experience with a woman not very long ago so i can relate to you but i beg of the other woman here not to make this about bashing men it's not a matter of chromosomes but a matter of character that causes situations like this..keep your head up and stay strong for your children i wish you the best of luck in this and everything you undertake
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| 10/3/2007 8:58:30 PM | repent for your wrongful ways | |
angelleyes
Plymouth, MA
age: 35
| ohhhhhh boy , do i remember that pain !
[Edited 10/3/2007 8:59:07 PM]
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| 10/3/2007 9:20:28 PM | repent for your wrongful ways | |
nonickname49
Belchertown, MA
age: 58
| Catlin..you are a beautiful young lady..and you seem to have it together.
hang tough...one day at a time
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| 10/3/2007 9:30:55 PM | repent for your wrongful ways | |
shygirl4now
Pensacola, FL
age: 32
| Catlin..I don't want your thread to die...LOL
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| 10/3/2007 9:54:26 PM | repent for your wrongful ways | |
iron_ranger
Owatonna, MN
age: 40
| hugs for everyone..... more hugs.
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| 10/3/2007 9:59:17 PM | repent for your wrongful ways | |
scndlman
Lexington, KY
age: 34
| I've repented long ago.. and now things seem to be turning around..it's so awesome.
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| 10/3/2007 10:03:32 PM | repent for your wrongful ways | |
lovinglife437
Meadville, PA
age: 44
| Catlin, everybody needs their time to grieve and this is yours. You are an incredibly strong woman.
For what it's worth, there are very few "bad" things that have happened in my life that I can't see something "good" that came from it. For whatever reason he brought you here (physically and spiritually), in time I think you'll know. When I can't see things I pray for the clarity to see what God wants me to do or be. It doesn't always come quickly but it comes. For me, knowing those things helps me to focus on the positive. I'm not the best example of it, I have my own trials, but the point is to try, and it gets easier over time.
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| 10/4/2007 3:39:20 AM | repent for your wrongful ways | |
teespoon
Martinsville, VA
age: 56
| catlin hang in there
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| 10/5/2007 6:35:56 PM | repent for your wrongful ways | |
catlin
Chambersburg, PA
age: 39
| Shygirl
Thank You always for you support and great advice, you too will
find a man worthy of you.
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| 10/5/2007 6:39:23 PM | repent for your wrongful ways | |
castertroy
Howell, NJ
age: 38
| Good girl!
Say it like it is mama!
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