10/5/2007 6:09:41 PMNeed help with site! 

kittenz
New Philadelphia, OH
age: 51


How do I go to stealth mode? Someone mentioned that. And is there any way to let someone know when they send an IM request that you are tied up with another conversation, or checking out forums? I can't keep up with answering all IMs to tell them maybe later, or I'm busy with something else. Any help appreciated. Thanks. This is a GREAT Place!!

10/5/2007 6:37:59 PMNeed help with site! 

copterdriver
Saint Matthews, SC
age: 56


Just sign out and you can still view the forums. You can't chat or post without signing back in. If they bother you you can decline the chat request.

I do sometimes and email them later and explain I was busy.

If you don't want to IM with people state that in your profile.

Copter

10/5/2007 6:41:43 PMNeed help with site! 

kittenz
New Philadelphia, OH
age: 51


Thanks for the info. I didn't realize I could view forums and not be signed in.

10/5/2007 6:43:01 PMNeed help with site! 

guardian65
Hudson, NH
age: 43


And, there's a forum thread where you can submit questions or suggest improvements if you can't find an answer any other way. Good luck

10/5/2007 7:04:54 PMNeed help with site! 

smiley62
McHenry, IL
age: 45


Someone was nice enough to share with me that you can turn off IM. Go to "home", then "account" and change the setting. I was having the same problem and felt like I was being very rude ignoring or declining requests.

10/5/2007 7:09:04 PMNeed help with site! 

kittenz
New Philadelphia, OH
age: 51


Thanks Smiley, I will try that!

10/5/2007 7:13:36 PMNeed help with site! 

kittenz
New Philadelphia, OH
age: 51


That did it Smiley! Thanks for the suggestion. I didn't want to appear rude by not replying or just saying "No" when I'm otherwise occupied.