| 10/7/2007 5:27:03 PM | Older women with younger men*** | |
catlin
Chambersburg, PA
age: 39
| If he's mom was against it due to a big gap 10-15age gap
difference between him and the women he loved,not only because of
the age difference but double whammie because she also is a single
mother of 1-2 ect....
But she loves him and stands by him and she is what he
wants and whom makes him happy, would you let her go to keep your
relationship with your mother (if she made you choose between your
girl or her?) or would you tell your mom *Im choosing her***
A mom's love should be unconditional and as long as a woman is making
her son happy is all that should count.
***Men/women: What do you think? ***
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| 10/7/2007 5:30:43 PM | Older women with younger men*** | |
thecaveman
Fort Bragg, NC
age: 22
| Umm good point catlin,but i htink a good mother would agree one the sons choices if she loves him.
I really think the son should choice what he thinks is better for him and if the girl makes him happy i think he should choice her.
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| 10/7/2007 5:32:23 PM | Older women with younger men*** | |
peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 41
| My oldest married a girl I couldn't stand but, She won't hear that from me as long as my son is happy...My oppinions don't matter.
xoxoPeaches.
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| 10/7/2007 5:32:52 PM | Older women with younger men*** | |
tj1free
Storm Lake, IA
age: 37
| love knows no age if both parties are concenting adults they are old enough to make up there own minds my ex was 9 years older than me and people did'nt care. they just wanted to see both partners happy.
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| 10/7/2007 5:36:25 PM | Older women with younger men*** | |
catlin
Chambersburg, PA
age: 39
| Peaches (you got the point of it) your love is unconditional and
thats the way it should be but alot of women do make their sons
choose and that is a shame and cruel, I have 2 sons and would
respect their decisions as well because even if they didnt work out
at the end he would still feel he could come to me to cope with it
and talk about it.
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| 10/7/2007 5:38:44 PM | Older women with younger men*** | |
catlin
Chambersburg, PA
age: 39
| TJ
good response.
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| 10/7/2007 5:39:08 PM | Older women with younger men*** | |
peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 41
| Well, from a mothers point of view from having grown kids..It's hard to watch my guys do things I know is going to get them hurt but, My father (who hung the moon and stars) told me...butt out!! They enrolled in the school of hard knocks along time ago and regardless of my oppinion, they are still going to do what they wish with whom they wish it..I can only hope I raised them with intellegance,strength and honour.
xoxoPeaches.
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| 10/7/2007 5:42:09 PM | Older women with younger men*** | |
catlin
Chambersburg, PA
age: 39
| Why Mr. Photo
can I ask you a question? this is the 2nd thread I start and you
knocked it down? Why ?
Well have you heard the song "If you could only see" by Tonic
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| 10/7/2007 5:44:24 PM | Older women with younger men*** | |
thecaveman
Fort Bragg, NC
age: 22
| thats true photo dude thats a good song listen to it.
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| 10/7/2007 5:45:50 PM | Older women with younger men*** | |
catlin
Chambersburg, PA
age: 39
| Thank you (CaveMan) You are a wise man.
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| 10/7/2007 5:48:06 PM | Older women with younger men*** | |
goodandhard
Garland, TX
age: 33
| yes all that matters is that she loves him and should let it be. i just got divorced because my mother-in-law didnt like me because i didnt bend over backwards every time somebody said jump.
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| 10/7/2007 5:50:27 PM | Older women with younger men*** | |
catlin
Chambersburg, PA
age: 39
| Photo,
what may be baggage to you (may not be baggage to others) and ask this
from a guy who is around your age and I guess it does have to do
with maturity (not all guys who are the same age)mature the same.
Cave Man can you add to this comment to Photo.
But then again thats one opinion verses several (the several that
are positive) ok photo you have made your case and posted your
opinion, But Im just glad I met a guy here who thinks so differently
from you and he is a sweetheart and Me and him are going to make it work.
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| 10/7/2007 5:53:01 PM | Older women with younger men*** | |
peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 41
| Goals, What you both want in life etc...They need to match and do be careful, I know you think photo is being negative but, he's just being honest...Alot of oppinions change as ppl grow older...I love younger guys but, even tho they say they may not want kids..That could change..and then It would be my fault...jmo
xoxoPeaches.
Show me an adult w/o baggage I'll show you a liar 
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| 10/7/2007 5:53:25 PM | Older women with younger men*** | |
catlin
Chambersburg, PA
age: 39
| GoodandHard
Nice to read wise words from a mature man.
thanks for your input and you will find a woman who is worthy of
you and your love, few are the good women left out here but we
are still here just kinda takes awhile to find but dont lose hope ok.
God Bless
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| 10/7/2007 5:55:43 PM | Older women with younger men*** | |
thecaveman
Fort Bragg, NC
age: 22
| i think it all depends on the person, and how they handle it some people just dont really think it through.
catlin i am gald you found somone.
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