| 10/9/2007 2:06:43 PM | Hey Guys, Why are Men affraid of Marriage? | |
peachcake
Forest Hill, MD
age: 31
| My Bofriend and i were together for four years and since i turned thirty i was ready to start with the engagement and family and now all of a sudden, he dont know if he wants marriage and family, but if we were living that life anyway then why let me leave? whats up with that, HELP!! I need to have fun again!!!!
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| 10/9/2007 2:13:16 PM | Hey Guys, Why are Men affraid of Marriage? | |
_critter_
Ridgeway, VA
age: 56
| why he marry you he gittin free milk
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| 10/9/2007 2:29:16 PM | Hey Guys, Why are Men affraid of Marriage? | |
truegrace
Hagerstown, MD
age: 52
| men are afraid of committment, msot don't want to be tied to one woman
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| 10/9/2007 2:35:27 PM | Hey Guys, Why are Men affraid of Marriage? | |
bigddaddy
Harvey, IL
age: 44
| Men are not really afraid of marriage. They generally enjoy their cake and ice cream together. They want both worlds. Once they grow up, then they will settle down.
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| 10/9/2007 2:44:55 PM | Hey Guys, Why are Men affraid of Marriage? | |
peachcake
Forest Hill, MD
age: 31
| yeah but he had his cake and ice cream too, but still dont know if marriage is right for him or children, so i packed my stuff and left, think if he loves me he will come around or should i settle? Is there any guys out there that still want marrige and a family.
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| 10/9/2007 2:46:35 PM | Hey Guys, Why are Men affraid of Marriage? | |
peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 41
| Lots of guys do...Just take your time in choosing!
xoxoPeaches.
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| 10/9/2007 3:05:45 PM | Hey Guys, Why are Men affraid of Marriage? | |
iron_ranger
Owatonna, MN
age: 40
| marriage has turned into a legal and financial obligation to most men. when i get the dog, house, kids and retirement, maybe the threads will be asking why women are affraid of marriage and committment..... 
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| 10/9/2007 3:11:05 PM | Hey Guys, Why are Men affraid of Marriage? | |
stormygrl
Longmont, CO
age: 42
| i agree with ranger - i have seen so many men get hung out to dry after a divorce - some women are really brutal to these guys. JMO so maybe he is just worried about that - i hope i dont piss anyone off with this response.
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| 10/9/2007 3:12:21 PM | Hey Guys, Why are Men affraid of Marriage? | |
crutchbrigade
Austell, GA
age: 23
| agrees with above
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| 10/9/2007 3:14:20 PM | Hey Guys, Why are Men affraid of Marriage? | |
holdinpanama
Panama City, FL
age: 44
| hey when you get engaged and talking about the date and then the next you know she's gone and you are left wondering what the hell did i do.it took a while for me to convince myself i did nothing wrong and that incident has affected a couple of relationships.
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| 10/9/2007 3:38:45 PM | Hey Guys, Why are Men affraid of Marriage? | |
tazzper23
Texarkana, TX
age: 45 online now!
| cause some people are afraid of change they look at it like why the hell get marriage if u geting everything already
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| 10/9/2007 4:31:30 PM | Hey Guys, Why are Men affraid of Marriage? | |
looking4msrt
Anderson, SC
age: 41
| Not all men are afraid of marriage. I've been there twice and working on as many devorces. Eventually I'll go there again (marriage that is). From my experence I believe men are conditioned just like females are. Most of us on this site have been through more than their fair share of bad relationships. We've all made our mistakes and made some of them twice. Most of us have learned from them. Which mean we are smarter and better people than we were. When a person has a history of making decisions with his heart and the end result is pain, anger and being alone. That person learns to questions his heart. Then he starts trying to use his head. When men think about marriage, RISK comes to mind (emotional and financial). The older we get, the less risk We like to take! Which mean we have to put in more effort than we use to and so does the females! We need more reassurance than ever! I don't think sleeping or not sleeping with us is the deciding factor! Don't get the wrong picture, pre-marital sex is great - that sometimes lead to marriage- which sometimes leads to devorce - which all started with communication and chemistry!
[Edited 10/9/2007 5:08:15 PM]
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| 10/9/2007 4:50:17 PM | Hey Guys, Why are Men affraid of Marriage? | |
krupa1
Abilene, TX
age: 40
| For me personally, I have witnessed what divorce is like amongst my family and friends and I swore I will never go through a divorce. Every woman who I dated since I was in my 20's knew right up front that I will never marry them.
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| 10/9/2007 5:07:02 PM | Hey Guys, Why are Men affraid of Marriage? | |
waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51
| I am for marriage. I still believe in it. And I hope to find that special Lady who I shall fall in love with and marry and enjoy many happy years together.
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| 10/9/2007 5:35:51 PM | Hey Guys, Why are Men affraid of Marriage? | |
soultrynights
San Clemente, CA
age: 39
| we r afraid cuz we dont want to be stuck with the same piece of ass 4 the rest of out life    
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