10/10/2007 7:20:55 AMLin from Maine....Hi everyone 

lenor
Lisbon, ME
age: 61


Hi I have been reading all the threads and they are all very interesting. I am 60 and widow. My husband was diagnosed with Mesothelimona in July of 2005. We had to go to Boston for an EPP (lung, diagphram and lining of heart removed) Went through the chemo in January of 2006 started radiation in March 2006. Day before he finished radiation, April 16, 2007 (Easter Sunday) he passed away. Blood clot to the heart. Been alone now for 1 1/2 year. Having a hard time adjusting to losing my best friend, lover and soul mate of 42 years. Just was wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to how to get out into life again, when you never had to be alone. Thanks for any help

10/10/2007 7:24:53 AMLin from Maine....Hi everyone 

indianman
State College, PA
age: 61


wlecome lin, so sorry for your loss,I had a girlfriend die last year from Melanoia,she was my best friend and still miss her .

10/10/2007 8:07:05 AMLin from Maine....Hi everyone 

shepherdgal
Flint, MI
age: 56


Hi again Lenor
I don't know what it's like to lose a spouse, but I
lost my father a couple years ago to ALS ..
My heart goes out to you. You can always come here to
chat when you're feeling down. You'll make lots of friends.
It's like one big family.. sometimes a little dysfunctional though..lol

10/10/2007 8:25:09 AMLin from Maine....Hi everyone 

lenor
Lisbon, ME
age: 61


Sorry to hear of your loss, hard losing someone.

Yes, I think I will like this and usually in the evening is when I am on a lot. I play hearts on MSN. Today its a rainy cold day so will be on this on and off.

10/10/2007 8:53:13 PMLin from Maine....Hi everyone 

lassie60
Sequim, WA
age: 61


Sorry for your loss. My husband has been gone 6 years, died of Cancer...ugly disease. It gets easier with time. I just ended a 4 year relationship, so I'm back on the block so to speak and it feels real wierd. I still miss my husband, but he wanted me to find someone to make me happy...so the search continues.

Gail

10/10/2007 9:01:53 PMLin from Maine....Hi everyone 

chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47


My condolenses lenor on your loved one passing away. Welcome to the forums!!!

10/10/2007 9:57:11 PMLin from Maine....Hi everyone 

queenofhearts61
Seymour, IN
age: 62


Sorry to hear of all the loses. Welcome to the forums.