10/11/2007 11:42:43 AMNew as of today and hoping to be of value 

citybob
Wake Forest, NC
age: 50


A little background of my self. I was born in hells kitchen in NYC, Iam latin and italian.most pepole who know or meet me think that i am either mafia or a columbia drug lord king pin, due to the way I dress and act sometimes. I enjoy eating at the best resturants and like to dance and have a good time no matter where Im at. and between the end of october to march I become a beach bum and hit the carabean island by island I meet alot of pepole But my i wish I had someone with me to enjoy it with me as a friend.Iam the type that wears a white dinner jacket and black bow tie to dinner when I have a date and enjoy drinking wine on the beach under the stars as you can tell Im an old fashion romantic a lost art.I want my nigths to be unforgetable for my date and me.and what ever becomes of the nigth beomes a loving memory.I don't know why woman shy away when treated like a lady. But it will not stop me from treating a lady like a real woman.
AM I WRONG?

10/11/2007 1:31:26 PMNew as of today and hoping to be of value 

readytodance
Walled Lake, MI
age: 50


I'm new here too and not quite sure how this all works, but I think it is worth a try. It is interesting that you said what you did. I am a lady and expect to be treated like one, to me its just the way it should be, and in return a lady treats the man in her life with the same respect and does special things to make him feel wanted, liked/loved, and respected. I have heard things from other men friends too and I just don't understand how people can not be "old fashion romantic". I have heard friends say they think they should start being mean because they think that's what women want and I totally disagree. I think you should treat and make people feel the way you want to be treated and be made to feel.

So my point is you should keep those thoughts and keep on treating women that way and the right one will eventually meet up with you.

10/11/2007 5:17:51 PMNew as of today and hoping to be of value 

chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47


No citybob you're not wrong in pampering a woman. I consider it very appreciated. Welcome to DHU!!!