10/11/2007 11:53:45 AMintro and questions 

jugbosox
Concord, NC
age: 39


Hey there, Jug from Charlotte, NC.
I have been reading a few profiles and I keep seeing a few things I don't understand. What is a "player", what does "keep it real", what is "doesn't need any drama" or "headgames"?
Sorry if this seems like a silly question.

10/11/2007 11:59:53 AMintro and questions 

kikigirl
Downers Grove, IL
age: 27


ok, a "player" is someone who dates several girls at the same time without the girls ever finding out....
"keep it real" thats simple... dont lie....
"doesnt need any drama" meaning, if you have emotional baggage, ie; from a previous relationship...
"headgames" someone who is just here to mess around with people, and is not looking for a relationship, but they make you think that they are,
hope that helps

10/11/2007 12:11:37 PMintro and questions 

jugbosox
Concord, NC
age: 39


OK, I guess that makes sense.
Isn't it sad that you have to put that in your profile?

10/11/2007 5:13:49 PMintro and questions 

chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47


Welcome to DHU jugbosox!!!

As far as profiles, you put that in there and some still don't read them



[Edited 10/11/2007 5:14:41 PM]

10/11/2007 5:21:34 PMintro and questions 

shylady61842
Paulding, OH
age: 66


Hi yes I am 65 and I am looking. I would like to know what finding someone with benefits means or no strings attached relation. I always thought benefits was what came with finding a job

10/11/2007 5:23:27 PMintro and questions 

chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47


friends with benefits is a booty call ... that's all just plain sex.

10/11/2007 5:23:36 PMintro and questions 

guardian65
Hudson, NH
age: 42


Benefits: All the sex without the relationship

Strange, but true....

Dang, chopper, you beat me to it....and said it better than me



[Edited 10/11/2007 5:24:13 PM]

10/11/2007 5:26:16 PMintro and questions 

chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47


Usually it starts out that way and then boom you get a thread of I want friends with benefits but she wants more how can I keep her??? FWB just doesn't work