Need a little advice here 61

11/28/2008 8:14:09 AM	Need a little advice here
beernuts1086 Youngstown, OH age: 39	Do the kids need a cell phone while at home? Turn them off, house phone only and look at the caller id and/or turn off the ringer. Meet singles in your area here at DateHookup.com, we're 100% free for everything! Join now!
11/28/2008 5:03:27 PM	Need a little advice here
stringsvrs Syracuse, NY age: 53	Every time you answer the phone be sure to put the kids on the phone to talk with him. Make sure too that he interacts with the children whenever he comes to the house and urge him to take the children as often as possible. This keeps it clear that his relationship should be centered on their maintaining a relationship and not you and him.... Push all contact he attempts with you onto the children where it should be. He will either develop a really good relationship with his children or he will become the deadbeat dad you think he is. Peace and Love
11/28/2008 7:10:34 PM	Need a little advice here
setters46 Birmingham, AL age: 47	restraining order
11/28/2008 8:08:35 PM	Need a little advice here
sangor Williston, ND age: 46	tell you him you love him and really nead the house on the water
11/28/2008 8:38:26 PM	Need a little advice here
davidretic33 Rome, GA age: 33	have your new man kill him
11/28/2008 8:50:01 PM	Need a little advice here
96292848d Summerdale, AL age: 30	yOU DIDNT GIVE a lot of information even in your responses and everyone has given you a lot of advice and had a lot of fun BUT WHAT I got out of this is that the phone belongs to the kids and they are trying to get you to talk to him...This is very common and you may find out that a grandparent gave them the idea but reguardless if he only calling on their phone then you need to calmly explain things to them and then politely ask him not to encourage their actions because this is just makeing the gap between you wider..My sons did this and they are grown..I would get them to see their mom after she left and they would call me and then give her the phone and say she wanted to talk..She was polite at first and then she realized that I hadnt ask and she hadnt ask and she confronted them and they both admitted it but also told her they were only there because Imade them...She did call rhen to tell me not to make them come anymore...That was 14 months ago and one has only seen her 2 times and the other about 6 times...3 years old or 23 years old kids have their own agenda sometimes..
11/29/2008 11:25:12 AM	Need a little advice here
pleaseswallow New York, NY age: 44	Tell him you have contracted a sexually transmitted disease, maybe Ghonarea because it sounds so scarey. Tell him you miss him and want him to come over as soon as possible.
11/29/2008 11:35:41 AM	Need a little advice here
taytice Aurora, CO age: 41	next time he calls start moaning and gasping and purring and ask if he can call tommorrow your kinda busy and as your hanging upsay my god your d*ck is so much bigger than me exes but make sure he can hear it then click That should do it
11/29/2008 2:27:55 PM	Need a little advice here
khrystaleroxx North Richland Hills, TX age: 39	Quote from optimystk: children should not have cell phones Try telling them that!!!!!
11/29/2008 2:29:23 PM	Need a little advice here
khrystaleroxx North Richland Hills, TX age: 39	Quote from taytice: next time he calls start moaning and gasping and purring and ask if he can call tommorrow your kinda busy and as your hanging upsay my god your d*ck is so much bigger than me exes but make sure he can hear it then click That should do it How did you know I was an expert at purring? PPPPUUUUUURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRrrrrrrrrrrr..........
11/30/2008 2:04:19 AM	Need a little advice here
pleasher1969 Burlington, IA age: 40	Tell hem to grow up.And go find his happiness and move on.
11/30/2008 3:56:34 AM	Need a little advice here
dom5 McMinnville, OR age: 67	Tell him his johnson is to big for you.
11/30/2008 4:00:25 AM	Need a little advice here
detomajr Virginia Beach, VA age: 58	If you have tried all the suggestions given here then your only recourse is litigation. Warn him that if he doesn't stop calling you that you will contact the police. The phone company can track how many call come from any given number which can then be used as evidence to support Stalking. Get a restraining order and then press charges.
11/30/2008 4:14:01 AM	Need a little advice here
spiceysusie Jacksonville, FL age: 38	In all seriousness...each time you talk to him, listen to his problems, you are given him false hope..that the relationship still exists...and if you are serious about it being over, then you have to put an end to the calls..if its not related to your children, something you have to discuss with him, things that concern both of you...you do not share your lifes day to day events...with each other...there is a reason why he is the ex...you really need to evaluate yourself in taking these calls, its a control method, a almost attitude of "I still have her"..your self-esteem can be effected, your childrens...everything...build your confidence...you've made the decisison to split up..now you have to stick with it...some couples split up and say we can be friends...that really is not always possible...atleast not without alot of time to heal from the break-up....Just make the decision...if your done..be done..don't answer..lol
11/30/2008 10:57:10 AM	Need a little advice here
lostintn Morristown, TN age: 58	Divorce is tough...I've just been through one. It's difficult to move on at first because finding the right person isn't easy. Sometimes its easier to just hold on to the past then it is to move forward. You don't sound like a cruel person but you may have to get a little tougher on him. My ex had to do that to me... and after awhile I got more comfortable with the situation and the problems that lead to the divorce in the first place. Remind him why you got divorced and that u r moving forward and that he should do the same. The constant contact is not progress and you both need to move on. The hanging on is useless and if you wanted to talk to him everyday you wouldn't be divorced - but you are and you need him to get a life that doesn't include you ...tell him that u have and his calls are becoming annoying... it sounds like you've been nice and continue to answer his calls...get caller id and don't pick up ... do that for a few weeks and text him that you've moved on ..avoid all direct conversation and contact.. if he still doesn't get it call your lawyer and have him send him a letter that if the contact doesn't stop he will be served with a restraining order. You may also suggest that he seek professional counseling or you will be forced to take legal action. GOOD LUCK.
11/30/2008 12:06:40 PM	Need a little advice here
isum Banning, CA age: 35	Block his number, get a new phone, change your number, after storing all numbers known, or BETTER yet.... talk to him. He is going through a death... its terrifying and he is liable of many tendencies.. Give him hard love as if he were someones son. That might help.
11/30/2008 12:09:49 PM	Need a little advice here
greatguy1011 Richmond, VA age: 49	Have a guy answer the phone as often as you can.
11/30/2008 12:15:20 PM	Need a little advice here
mjcnh Merrimack, NH age: 48	Give head to his best friend and send him a video
11/30/2008 3:04:33 PM	Need a little advice here
graywolf50 Danville, IL age: 51	There are many answers here and some are good. If you are divorced then you have to go by the decree. Advise you children the fact their father loves them and never deny them access to him, but if are the brunt of it all then the only choice you have is a court order PPO. Make sure it covers your home phone and then have the childrens number changed and advise them not to give the number to their father and that he has to use the home phone to call them to talk to them. Or make sure all numbers are listed as apart of the PPO as a way to track the harrassing calls. This will give you all the evidence needed to has his but thrown in jail. It will only take once cause most judges will not allow repeat offenses and the next time he will be in longer. As a last resort and I hate to say it ----- MOVE!
11/30/2008 3:40:40 PM	Need a little advice here
monaj40 Binghamton, NY age: 41	Change your number...simple.
11/30/2008 6:07:51 PM	Need a little advice here
chicky54 Chester, VA age: 56	Write him a letter and mean what you say, and once he thinks youve been with another man they back off, they aint into leftovers then
11/30/2008 6:25:41 PM	Need a little advice here
dragas Milwaukee, WI age: 44	Tell him you called Drew AKA Dragas and subcontraced on his ass. I'm cheap and need the extra ching, don't worry I won't hurt him, that's illegal. I will just have a word with him. Drew.
11/30/2008 6:32:22 PM	Need a little advice here
blueeyedwander Colorado Springs, CO age: 30	I know how that one is! Ignore him as best as you can! If that dont work change your #! But just try to avoid him! I know from expierience thats a real hard thing todo! If your done then its the only way and if hes gets too persistant then RESTRAINING ORDER!