| 10/13/2007 12:59:05 PM | Guys, would you belive a gal if she said she loved you after 2 weeks? | |
defiantlyltr
Stroudsburg, PA
age: 56
| Agree to disagree endlessly.
Yes I agree that 2 weeks is a short time. However, some people do live their lives with
hearts that are truly open to giving and nuturing and loving someone else. That doesn't
make them needy or desparate but wanting to satisfy themselves, in a way that most
people who are very closed and overly cautious don't and can't understand. It is a
satisfaction that most people cannot comprehend.
Look at it this way. We all need sustinance. We all NEED to eat. What we WANT is
lobster but mac and cheese is all you have. If we eat the mac and cheese our need is
met, we are no longer hungry, BUT our WANT is not satisfied!! Therefore we are not
truly satisfied! It is not wrong to need it is what we WANT to fill that need that is
the most satisfying to us. I don't believe that most people will just settle for just anything.
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| 10/13/2007 1:00:43 PM | Guys, would you belive a gal if she said she loved you after 2 weeks? | |
castertroy
Belmar, NJ
age: 38
| Does it all have to be minimized to mac and cheese?
Perhaps you should put down that Margarita you have on your picture and ask for some
Moet Chandon
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| 10/13/2007 1:04:25 PM | Guys, would you belive a gal if she said she loved you after 2 weeks? | |
defiantlyltr
Stroudsburg, PA
age: 56
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Yes troy sometimes it just boils down to mac and cheese!
I WANT MY LOBSTER!!!!!
I don't WANT to settle for anything less!
And good choice on the bubbly!! hehehe
[Edited 10/13/2007 1:24:11 PM]
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| 10/13/2007 1:05:55 PM | Guys, would you belive a gal if she said she loved you after 2 weeks? | |
endlessly
Melbourne, FL
age: 81
| ltr,
You and I are as different as others I call friend here. What might work for you, would not at all work for me. While you might say GREAT to such.. I would be very slowly backing safely away.
[Edited 10/13/2007 1:08:45 PM]
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| 10/13/2007 1:07:25 PM | Guys, would you belive a gal if she said she loved you after 2 weeks? | |
peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 41
| Saying the "L" word that fast would for sure freak me out!! 
xoxoPeaches.
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| 10/13/2007 1:11:54 PM | Guys, would you belive a gal if she said she loved you after 2 weeks? | |
endlessly
Melbourne, FL
age: 81
| I just think I would not believe it anyway, as if the one who said it that soon OFTEN said it that soon. Just feels needy and clingy. Red flag with fireworks even!
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| 10/13/2007 1:13:50 PM | Guys, would you belive a gal if she said she loved you after 2 weeks? | |
defiantlyltr
Stroudsburg, PA
age: 56
| Endlessly I think you misunderstood my intent. I did say that 2 weeks was too short a
time and agree with you that there is no RIGHT time to say it. I just think that when a
person feels it in their heart that is should not be contained and that it should be
expressed and made known that's all!!
And YES in 2 weeks, in the RW or even online where things seem to move much faster,
it is not enough time to have really gotten to know the other person truly.
[Edited 10/13/2007 1:22:39 PM]
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| 10/13/2007 1:15:25 PM | Guys, would you belive a gal if she said she loved you after 2 weeks? | |
peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 41
| ltr, Your right...things move fast...I'd just freak the fcuk out if some guy said that to me tho after only 2 weeks..I'd pack my bags and gtfo!
xoxoPeaches.
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| 10/13/2007 1:15:46 PM | Guys, would you belive a gal if she said she loved you after 2 weeks? | |
trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 51 online now!
| And what about guys who would say it after 2 weeks? Hummm is it ok one way and not the other?
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| 10/13/2007 1:16:55 PM | Guys, would you belive a gal if she said she loved you after 2 weeks? | |
castertroy
Belmar, NJ
age: 38
| Time is in your mind.
Two weeks might as well be 2 years.
People percieve time differently when they connect with the right person , lets not be so judgemental.
Even Einstein said Time was relative , and the man was so right.
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| 10/13/2007 1:19:04 PM | Guys, would you belive a gal if she said she loved you after 2 weeks? | |
peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 41
| I would have to really really really know the person..Like.....wtf i am trying to kid? lol...I'd flat out run...but, hey that's me.
xoxoPeaches.
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| 10/13/2007 1:19:26 PM | Guys, would you belive a gal if she said she loved you after 2 weeks? | |
navyflyer
Wahiawa, HI
age: 43
| There is a very fine line between love and infatuation...if it's only been two weeks...I'd bet money on infatuation....JMO
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| 10/13/2007 1:20:37 PM | Guys, would you belive a gal if she said she loved you after 2 weeks? | |
trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 51 online now!
| I agree Troy. There is no set rules for any of this. Just like how long should one wait to start dating after their mate dies.. after a divorce.. etc. It's an individual choice.
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| 10/13/2007 1:25:42 PM | Guys, would you belive a gal if she said she loved you after 2 weeks? | |
endlessly
Melbourne, FL
age: 81
| It needs to be said when it needs to be said. I PERSONALLY think online relationships move too quickly. I have experienced a couple and it is easy to get caught up in the personal fantasy of it all. It may or may not be real.
I truly don't think you know someone till you have experienced all senses with them more than a few times. This is not often possible with online relationships.
I admire those who can do it, but I think it is a realllllllllly hard thing to do.
I am still friends with the very first person I ever spoke with on the internet over 10 years ago. We were VERY involved for a while, but realized it was not reality based and we let the romance part of it go. He freaked me out by buying wedding rings waaaay before it was time!! Some lady from the other side of the country convinced him that I was with another while in a relationship with him, it was clear that he didn't know me well enough to know what was true. We have returned to friendship, but not to romance.
Is that someone from here? Nope....long ago from Prodigyland...
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| 10/13/2007 1:27:56 PM | Guys, would you belive a gal if she said she loved you after 2 weeks? | |
defiantlyltr
Stroudsburg, PA
age: 56
| Exactly trublu!
There should be NO rules to follow but what feels right and true for the individuals
experiencing the situation.
Flyer - yes infatuations can be confused with true love. Sometimes they can preceed it,
but oftentimes they just fizzle out.
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